Are You Too Good For These Men?

[RedefinedDiva]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Will the difference between you and your sister's age grow bigger?

I'm an only child!

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally Posted by RedefinedDiva

Del, we are in the same boat. I think my compromise age range is between 5 to 8 years older. I would even consider going up to 10, but I feel like that's pushing it. I'm weird when it comes down to age!

As for kids, there was a point in time that I said I would never date a man with kids. Then, it seemed as if EVERYONE that I knew and/or met had a kid. There was some sort of baby boom in the late 90s! So, I pretty much decided that I had to get over it and deal with kids. However, as I have broadened my horizons and have met more people, I have come to know that there are still LOTS of guys out there WITHOUT kids.

Being as though I have never had kids of my own, nor do I have experience with a lot of kids, I don't think that I want to date a man with kids. If he was worth it, I would consider it, but I would rather they be small kids. I don't rock too well with juveniles or pre-teens, especially if they have a crazy mother. They are in that age range where their mom can plant wicked things in their head and they can act a fool. And I'm the type of chick that will act crazy right back with them! You can work with and mold toddlers.

Ultimately, my choice is to say no to kids.

2 years below and 4 above for me. Kids? Nope unless they come out of me. I also said no to divorced guys. Too much baggage for me. I'm super picky but I can live with this and the fact that I dont date much. It's what you are willing to put up with. I'm liberal about a lot of things but when it comes to men, I'm straight old school. Forgot to add, I agree with you

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by delph998

So ladies, how much of a compromise is age?

As of late, older men (33-38) have approached me. A lot of these men are really nice too and actually bring a great deal to the table. But then there's the possibility of them having children or being married before. I'm 27, no children, never been married, so I don't know how I feel about getting involved with someone with that history. I've always said that I don't want to play mom to someone else children, especially if the children are with the fathers. Then too I have met a wonderful guys with children but that question keeps popping up in my head. What do you do?

Turm that around to if you were a single Mom.