Yeah, I am not making this up. If I were a troll or some kind of jokester, I would have given up by now. I wish I could prove it somehow but I don't know how.
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Originally Posted by tld221
well therein lies the difference in the purpose you wear bras and the female GC population (and other male GC closeted bra-wearers alike). you wear them cause you like it, its fun, yadda yadda yadda. we (and thats the collective "we" mentioned above) wear them cause we kinda have to. VS's marketing in bras being "the best" and coming up with lines like the "very sexy" collection is just a way to blindsight the consumer. we know that deep down, wearing bras sucks serious non-gendered balls and the only way it makes us feel a little better about it is to put some bows and lace on it.
i bet youre one of those people who just show up for the party, ready to drink all the booze and leave happy and piss-ass drunk. you dont ever come to set up the party nor do you stay til the morning after to clean up.
(in case any of yall are unclear, i did just compare a bra-wearing dude to a party crasher - what about it?)
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Actually, believe it or not but I don't drink or do drugs. It's not me.. I just don't like doing it. I'll go to parties but I will just have soda or water. I see all the people getting plastered at parties and how immature they are being... thats not me. Besides, it is my goal in life to become a professional baseball player, and alcohol/drugs would just be a distraction and death trap for me. Therefore, I am holding off alcohol until I accomplish things I want to accomplish in my life. But this is a bra thread, so hopefully it doesn't turn into a alcohol/smoking/drugs ethics thread
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Originally Posted by mystikchick
it's not a question of him being comfortable with it, it's a question of how people would react. chances are there would be many people in his life that would react just like you have - calling it unnatural, weird, perverted, etc. it's also not always a safe thing to do because you never know how people are going to react. maybe it's just the product of being at my university for three years and being exposed to issues like this continuously, but i don't think there's anything wrong with it - i mean yeah, you sound like you may have some gender identity questions you haven't really explored (and i want to stress that i mean strictly gender identity, not sexuality), and i personally would be a bit weirded out if it were my guy fessing up to this, but to each their own.
you're not harming anyone, it makes you feel good, so what's the problem? enjoy it
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i feel really uncomfortable and weird wearing bras around my family, so i usually dont when i am around my family. but i am completely fine wearing them around everyone else.
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