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Originally Posted by Empress0105
sorry, but i am not chaning my opinion on this...and i don't think expressing my opinion on what they are doing is me trying to medle in their affairs....end of the day i am not apo, so what i say amounts to a hill of beans...
but i am telling you....
it will be a cold day in hell before these hbcu chapters willingly allow a chic to come into their orgs....that's just being honest....they might even initiate her, but to actually include her in the "brother" aspect, like hangin out at the frat house and hopping at parties...you know, the social things that seperate a fraternity from circle k or your local food bank volunteers....i don't see it happening. and i say that for ALL chapters of co ed orgs at HBCU that are currently single gender but are indirectly being forced to be co-ed....i mean Tenn State is co-ed, but they also had to reactivate....same thing with apo here at howard....but FAMU??? TUSKEGEE??? man...i just don't see it...
i think it's great you want to support your national officers in their decision, but i think that in this world today, how man chics aren't in certain chapters should be the least of these white ladies issues...
we can agree to disagree...but i still think it's a retarded decision that whether we want to face it or not soror, WILL eventually affect us.
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Whatever proclaimations that Alpha Phi Omega passes down to their chapters, has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with Gamma Sigma Sigma. Period. The End. So I'm curious to know how it's DIRECTLY AFFECTING our sorority and how we operate. Maybe there is something that I don't know.
A few posts ago I said that I personally didn't think the decision is fair. I too have had conversations with APO members, both male AND female about it. However, GSS is always gonna come first to before something that another organization is doing. Soror, I really hope that you will come to Chicago this July and have the same fervor about what's going on with us, like you have with Alpha Phi Omega. Because you're right, we got our own issues to tackle.
It may sound harsh but I could care less about Alpha Phi Omega and their problems. I care about Gamma Sigma Sigma and OUR problems. Secondly, it's this thing called RESPECT that's seriously lacking in conversations like this one. Okay sure, we are "brothers and sisters" but this is THEIR business. I will say again what I have said before, if there's something going on in your org that you don't like, don't just sit there and b*tch. DO SOMETHING. You best believe those chapters that opposed it were there and voiced their opinion. And if they are really that adamant about it, they will have their behinds there at the NEXT one. If we truly respect our brothers, we trust them to take care of their own business and vice versa.
Soror I know you personally and I know you've got more to say--I have more to say. Hit me up on here if you want and we can talk more. Just know that nobody is saying that you can't have an opinion or express it. There's a time and place for everything.
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