Cheating Men - Page 13

AKA_Monet · #**181** 05-07-2007, 08:06 PM

Hilarious!

Cheating men will get caught eventually. Maybe not by the original cheated, but maybe by a lately cheated... Women cheat too. I don't know if they are fundamentally similar in tactics or different in outcomes? But, bottom line, humans have high infidelity wired into our systems. It is the same with the chimpanzee. Whereas, the gorilla males generally have 2 mates only and always...

Survival of the fittest...

But if we are talking about love, a trule erotic deep love shared by a husband and wife before God and all that good stuff, then the room for cheating is a spiritual infraction and blasphemy before God. If one in the relationship can live a lie to his or herself and enjoy deception and become demonic by adding things that ought not be present in a Shiva/Shakti relationship, then hey, I hope they can live with themselves...

I can tell, you in my marriage, I have no control if my husband cheats on me. But those are things I do not hope to happen. However, if it did, because I made the commitment myself to not cheat on him, so he'd be the one cheating, then I hope he is happy with his life without me. And I will move on.

I have been with a cheater before I was married. I know what one looks like and the behavior. That is not a life I wish to pursue.

James · #**182** 05-07-2007, 08:09 PM

I never cheated, but if all the cool kids are doing it, I feel like I am missing out.

Jamal5000 · #**183** 05-08-2007, 07:25 AM

Yes, Sir, Professor, I concur: it's a pickle of a situation from a man's point of view.

Women can be dangerous to a man because they appeal to the very basic part of our nature: our desire to mate/breed.

As an almost married man, I see traps with beautiful eyes, hair, smiles, and body parts everyday. What keeps me out of trouble is the yucky feeling and consequences that could result from becoming intimate (either emotional or sexual); it's both divine (1 Thessalonians 4:1-13) and earthly.

Keep Smiling

PrettyBoy · #**184** 05-09-2007, 12:47 AM

If I ever get involved in a serious relationship again with a nice girl, of course I'll be faithful to her. I've always been a one woman man. Always have been, and I always will be. I can't understand why a lot men and women cheat. Isn't one person enough?

KAPPAtivating · #**185** 05-09-2007, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

If I ever get involved in a serious relationship again with a nice girl, of course I'll be faithful to her. I've always been a one woman man. Always have been, and I always will be. I can't understand why a lot men and women cheat. Isn't one person enough?

YES! One.is.enough. And sometimes too much! Anything more than one...is a headace!

Professor · #**186** 05-09-2007, 08:23 AM

finally - an honest answer - lol

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Originally Posted by Jock16

i personally would like no more than 6 or 7. i at least wanna have 2 at the least.

Live_Wire17 · #**187** 05-26-2007, 05:51 PM

Some men don't need an excuse to cheat...they just do it.

cheerfulgreek · #**188** 05-26-2007, 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Live_Wire17

Some men don't need an excuse to cheat...they just do it.

Ditto.

PrettyBoy · #**189** 05-27-2007, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Live_Wire17

Some men don't need an excuse to cheat...they just do it.

Yup, you're right, but 9 times out of 10 she'll still stay with him if he does.

delph998 · #**190** 05-27-2007, 09:06 AM

That's the unfortunate part. God made us to be emotional, forgiving beings. So we're more willing to compromise or work it out.

BUT...

Let us cheat on our man! Oh my goodness, there will be hell to pay.

cheerfulgreek · #**191** 05-27-2007, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by delph998

That's the unfortunate part. God made us to be emotional, forgiving beings. So we're more willing to compromise.

BUT...

Let us cheat on our man! Oh my goodness, there will be hell to pay.

lol

I agree. I used to keep taking my X back after his cheating ways, but I wouldn't do that now. I would just move on. It would be hard but I think I could do it.

Live_Wire17 · #**192** 05-28-2007, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Yup, you're right, but 9 times out of 10 she'll still stay with him if he does.

You are so right and that's the sad part.

akaladyppd · #**193** 07-30-2007, 07:35 AM

Speaking on behalf of my soror, who I will not name...RIP. Her fiance' cheating on her while they were dating. He dropped his side lover when they got engaged. The side lover got mad and killed my soror........so is it really worth it? People are crazy you just go around cheating on people. They snap...Think before you do. It's not always that easy. You reap what you sow. It'll come back to you 10x. And why would you want to cheat on someone you love?

PrettyBoy · #**194** 07-30-2007, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by akaladyppd

Speaking on behalf of my soror, who I will not name...RIP. Her fiance' cheating on her while they were dating. He dropped his side lover when they got engaged. The side lover got mad and killed my soror........so is it really worth it? People are crazy you just go around cheating on people. They snap...Think before you do. It's not always that easy. You reap what you sow. It'll come back to you 10x. And why would you want to cheat on someone you love?

Sorry to hear about your soror. Yes, you don't know how right you are. A lot of people think the grass is greener on the other side. What people fail to realize is if they spend more time fertilizing and taking care of their own grass the other side won't look so green. Today, I was watching Dr. Phil and this man was cheating on his wife with several different women, but yet he was already having problems in his marriage. I said to myself "Dude if you're not happy with your wife, what makes you think another woman is going to make you any happier? Work on fixing what you have before you leave and explore something new." You're right though, all it does is cause problems. Yeah, and how can a joker cheat on someone he/she loves? Or better yet, just don't cheat at all.

KAPPAtivating · #**195** 07-30-2007, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Sorry to hear about your soror. Yes, you don't know how right you are. A lot of people think the grass is greener on the other side. What people fail to realize is if they spend more time fertilizing and taking care of their own grass the other side won't look so green. Today, I was watching Dr. Phil and this man was cheating on his wife with several different women, but yet he was already having problems in his marriage. I said to myself "Dude if you're not happy with your wife, what makes you think another woman is going to make you any happier? Work on fixing what you have before you leave and explore something new." You're right though, all it does is cause problems. Yeah, and how can a joker cheat on someone he/she loves? Or better yet, just don't cheat at all.

Usually I find that when a person cheats, it's often due to some type of deficiency they have themselves and they look to fill it with someone else.