Sophomore rushing?

Quite a few women in my pledge class were sophomores. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

[AChiOhSnap]

Originally Posted by teddybeargirl87

Quite a few women in my pledge class were sophomores. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

The sentiment is nice, but you don't go to UGA. UGA is notoriously competitive, and many sororities will not bid sophomores.

As much as I hope that ugablonde finds her sorority home during this upcoming recruitment, it would be unrealistic to say that she's not going to have a bit of an uphill battle against her.

[AOII Angel]

I hope you do go through rush. Being in a sorority is about more than just your pledge class. Some of my best friends in AOII were in classes a year or two or even three years behind me. Age is just a number so don't put too much stock in it. As for whether or not you'll be cut, you will be...expect it and don't take it as a personal assault on you as a person. In big chapters many cuts are made for arbitrary reasons because the numbers have to be pared down. They won't all have time to get to know you so don't think that being cut means they didn't like you. Also, give the chapters a chance. If they keep you around, make an effort to get to know them. This means that even if the chapter is one you think you'd never want to pledge...give them a second chance, get to know the girls, research their national organizations. You may find plenty that you would enjoy and relate to. Unfortunately for sororities, from the outside many people only see who has the prettiest most popular girls. If you just check what's inside and pay less attention to the gossip, you may find an awesome group of girls that you'd be proud to call sisters. Good luck!

[xoheatherxo]

i pledged as a transfer and a lot of girls in my pledge class were freshman. but i was close to them and to the older actives in the chapter. so i wouldnt let the age thing bother you. but i pledged in a southwest college where rush isnt that competitive but good luck if you decide to rush again!!

[UGAalum94]

OP,

What have you got to lose?
Sure it's hard if you don't get invited back places you'd like to go back to, and that can be hard on the old self esteem.

But if you go in knowing what to expect, the absolute worst case scenario is really no worse that your not having rushed: you don't join a group.

You ultimately don't have that much to lose and everything to gain.

[NUBlue&Blue]

UGA is tough, but you already know that. If you're prepared for heavy cuts and willing to look hard at the houses who are giving you a chance, then I would also say to go ahead and go for it. You will never know if you don't try, and that's the only thing that is a certainty at UGA.

Here's my experience as an upperclassman pledge--I probably would've ended up in a totally different place if I had gone through rush as a freshman. I was from a really, really small rural town and I knew only one person in a sorority at my school. I regretted not going through rush everyday of my freshman year, but I had made a lot of friends in sororities and got involved in a lot of things, so by the time I went through rush, I had very good friends in a few different houses who were pulling for me. I got cut pretty heavily after the first day, but I had a full schedule for pref and I got my first choice. I really didn't have any close friends in my pledge class, most of my friends were my age and older, so if feeling awkward about being with girls a year younger is one of the only things holding you back, it may not be an issue. In any case, no matter what sorority you join, you usually find about 5 or 6 girls with whom you really click, and those are your friends.

Good luck if you decide to go for it. I'll be thinking about you along with all of my daughter's friends who are going through rush at UGA this fall and hoping for happy results for everybody. I know of one girl from our HS who did not have a good recruitment last year who is trying again, so you won't be the only one going through that experience.

(and although my older daughter is constantly correcting me...I'm old, so I'm going to say rush, pledge and house instead of recruitment, PNM and chapter )

[ufpiphi]

[QUOTE=NUBlue&Blue;1456241]
Here's my experience as an upperclassman pledge--I probably would've ended up in a totally different place if I had gone through rush as a freshman. I was from a really, really small rural town and I knew only one person in a sorority at my school. I regretted not going through rush everyday of my freshman year, but I had made a lot of friends in sororities and got involved in a lot of things, so by the time I went through rush, I had very good friends in a few different houses who were pulling for me. I got cut pretty heavily after the first day, but I had a full schedule for pref and I got my first choice. QUOTE]

NUBlue&Blue, your experience sounds much like mine. I rushed only as a sophomore, after spending my freshman year wishing I had in the first place.
Looking back now, I do not believe I would have been happy in the houses I coveted as a freshman. As a sophomore I felt more mature and more educated when it came to the selection process and what I truly desired in a house. Of course, being at a large Southern school with a competitive rush, several houses made my decision much easier by cutting me simply for being a sophomore. It was still painful and I felt it unfair at the time to be discriminated upon because of my age, but now I feel as though it was a blessing in disguise. I'm in a house where I'm comfortable and the girls liked me for me and didn't hold my age against me.
There were a few sophomores in my pledge class and I felt closer to them during our pledge process then our freshman counterparts. But after initiation and to this day, my closest friends in the house are ages and PCs both older and younger than me. You go through a lot with your PC, which is why so many clsoe friendships develop within that group of girls, but once you are initiated, you are all sisters and that common bond supersedes age, pc, majors, etc.
UGABlonde, I truly hope you decide to rush, you'll find it the experience of a lifetime and the benefits of a sorority are so valuable and lasting. Best of luck to you!