Is it cheating?

[Rudey]

Originally Posted by texas*princess

not saying everyone does that, just saying that's why the guys in the survey might have thought it was cheating.

Basically you get drunk and sleep around with your co-workers is what you're saying.

-Rudey
--Good for you, don't deny yourself the pleasure.

[Educatingblue]

I think most of the things in the article are ok. It really depends on the circumstances and as long as it doesn't turn into something else. If you are in a relationship with a really jealous person though, then none of that is ok.

[christiangirl]

I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.

oh my...that is horrible, yeah if you're engaged then your fiance is your sweetheart

[OtterXO]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.

Weird, I think we know the same guy, right down to the "sweetheart" stuff. haha The guy that did this to me wasn't engaged but he lived with his girlfriend. I was young and naive enough to believe his line of b.s. about why things weren't adding up. But, live and learn.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by OtterXO

Weird, I think we know the same guy, right down to the "sweetheart" stuff. haha The guy that did this to me wasn't engaged but he lived with his girlfriend. I was young and naive enough to believe his line of b.s. about why things weren't adding up. But, live and learn.

LOL, see I always thought it was weird that he wanted me to come up to his room all the time. I thought he was just after sex alone...naw, he just didn't want to risk his GF seeing us in public.

[cheerfulgreek]

Doesn't surprise me. It's so hard to trust guys.

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.

Wow, I did not even see that coming while reading the paragraph.

[PrettyBoy]

I just like to stick with one woman long term.