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My mother works for the DA and has run background checks on guys I've dated. The first time she did it she didnt' tell me she was going to do it. I told him about it,After that, there was a rush of my friends to set me up, and I went on no blind date without running one first. I always told them first - a couple thought I was kidding, but I reassured them that I wasn't. Mom would never tell me what was there, but would let me know only if there was something dangerous in their recent (last year or so) history. The main reason she does this is that I had once dated a guy that stole from me, my parents, and my grandmother, as well as doing several other horrible things during our relationship. I haven't run one in a couple of years.