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Originally Posted by Alphagamuga
We can read into it all the middle school motivation that we want, and certainly the pig poster makes you wonder, but considering image during recruitment, which like it or not, is a pretty image driven process in a lot of cases, in the form of thinking through how to line up for the video might not make a whole group of girls “stupid bitches.”
Is appearance alone how I think decisions should be made? No. Are appearance and reputation big factors in recruitment? yeah.
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Speak for your own campus. My chapter, as well as another on campus, are pretty diverse when it comes to looks (whether it be weight or other things) and we've had no problems recruiting. There were times that one or the other didn't get as high of numbers, but it was a year by year basis. Hit or miss.
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Originally Posted by Drolefille
Again, no one said that they were stupid bitches because they were in a sorority. Just that they make sororities on the whole look bad. Even if the video line up was not a big deal, it clearly hurt some feelings. See my other posts for my thoughts on the actual topic.
Girls who intentionally hurt others girls (their sisters!) like this deserve the title.
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Bahhhh thank you! Girls, individually, who think like this. Not whole chapter. That video lineup may have been a good move, had the girls not found out about it. But still, it really sucks that girls have to feel this way, especially since these days there is not one girl who doesn't have some kind of insecurity. Like, how would that particular girl had a big nose. And then some girl during voting says "I don't want this girl. She has a big nose. Ew."
And hence I agree...
Girls who intentionally hurt other girls like this deserve the title.
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