meanies

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

On the other hand, who would you put in the front of the group for the video that isn't going to hurt someone's feelings?

On the other hand, why would you do a line-up like that to begin with?

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

On the other hand, why would you do a line-up like that to begin with?

Maybe I misunderstood, but I was thinking that they were listing how they would line up to be taped for a video as part of recruitment. Even if you didn't have any mean intentions, you'd have to do some planning as to how to arrange people, if only by height.

If you're from a chapter of 100+ people, figuring out how to assemble people kind of comes with the size. If you've ever seen door stacking, you realize it's not an incidental assembly of people. I'm thinking the video or line up for the video might be like that.

[ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

Maybe I misunderstood, but I was thinking that they were listing how they would line up to be taped for a video as part of recruitment. Even if you didn't have any mean intentions, you'd have to do some planning as to how to arrange people, if only by height.

I don't LIKE the idea of putting more traditionally beautiful women in front and less in back...but as long as they are ALL in it, that's better than some instances I've seen. At least the women weren't being kept from the video.

But to be fair, I think my feelings would be hurt, too.

Not every single one of my sisters is nice to me...I don't know anyone who loves every single one of their sisters...and in fact there was a very serious incident between myself and another woman at one point...but I wouldn't let one person make me feel unwelcome, because I have just as much right to participate in Alpha Gam as she does. That's not fair to myself or my chapter...I wonder if she had a small group of the 120 picking on her or if it was pressure from the chapter in general? If a sister leaves because of the actions taken by other sister(s), then the problem needs to be addressed...I know it'll be harder to address it if it's a chapter mentality and not the actions of a certain group of girls.

[Tom Earp]

Reminds me of HS.

The in girls turned out toothless, weight gained, early gray or getting bald.

While the wall flowers who were not popular ended up being hotties.

Today is never tomarrow is it?

That is why ADPi left my campus as they were known as ADPigs and were actually the nicest ladies of any of the Sororities. Well, one of the reasons which either way was very cruel for them.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by Tom Earp

toothless, weight gained, early gray or getting bald.

/irony.