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Old 03-31-2007, 08:19 PM
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cheerfulgreek. Most people don't care if you flirt or not. Why would they?

Maybe some idiots are being malicious/snarky, but I doubt it. They are probably just teasing and having fun. Go with it.

As far as flirting with someone you can't see . . . well its flirting not sex. Flirting is just a light hearted teasing way of speaking. I know people in real life that are naturally pretty flirty. They are fun to be around.

Sometimes we refer to flirty people as just being clever conversationalists. Engaging and funny. Witty even.

So if you are naturally a flirty person, there is nothing wrong with that. Good for you.

If you are only flirty when you like someone . . . well then we come back to you crushing on prettyboy.

Which is still cool.

Do any of you remember . . was it SAEalumus? And Pbck? They were fun to watch banter.


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I don't think anyone cares, but I wasn't seriously flirting with him. I was just kidding. I don't know what he looks like. I can't seriously flirt with a guy I can't see. When I 1st became a member of this site, I didn't get along with him at all. I teased him like you guys do now, and that was only because he came off as being very arrogant. After his "friendly" advice he gave me, I saw a different side of him. There are some GCers that I like to chat with and some that I don't. At 1st, he was one of the ones I didn't like chatting with, but now I do. I guess the reason why I got so upset is because I'm kind of sensitive, I mean I went to bed one minute and the next minute this forum was all about Cheerful and PrettyBoy. Every post seemed like it said CG/PB. C'mon, gimme a break. There isn't anything going on between us. He's very different from most guys and since he's from the same town, greek, and really cool why not meet, so I asked him. I don't see what the big deal is.
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Old 03-31-2007, 11:41 PM
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cheerfulgreek. Most people don't care if you flirt or not. Why would they?

Maybe some idiots are being malicious/snarky, but I doubt it. They are probably just teasing and having fun. Go with it.

As far as flirting with someone you can't see . . . well its flirting not sex. Flirting is just a light hearted teasing way of speaking. I know people in real life that are naturally pretty flirty. They are fun to be around.

Sometimes we refer to flirty people as just being clever conversationalists. Engaging and funny. Witty even.

So if you are naturally a flirty person, there is nothing wrong with that. Good for you.

If you are only flirty when you like someone . . . well then we come back to you crushing on prettyboy.

Which is still cool.

Do any of you remember . . was it SAEalumus? And Pbck? They were fun to watch banter.
James, I'm not a flirty person at all. I really won't approach a guy or flirt with him unless he's really, really cute, and even then I probably wouldn't do it. I've seen/met a lot of cute guys, but none worth approaching or flirting with. The guys that I've gone out with have all been the same. They only seem to want one thing though. Seriously, a lot of them want a relationship too, but I'm not physically attracted to those guys in that way.

This whole thread was just a lot for me, I didn't mean to get so upset, but I'm just really sensitive...that's all.

I honestly wasn't flirting with PB. Maybe it may have come off that way, but I wasn't. I was just teasing him. He's just really fun to tease. Everyone on here teases him. He seems to have a great sense of humor so it makes it fun. I just thought since we're from the same town, it would be nice to actually put a face with a screen name and in our case a real name. The good thing is that I'll have a new friend to hang out with whenever he's in town.

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Old 04-01-2007, 12:53 AM
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I honestly wasn't flirting with PB. Maybe it may have come off that way, but I wasn't.
We heard you when you lied the first time, you don't have to say it again.




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Old 04-01-2007, 02:03 AM
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HAHA you SO were flirting with him. Playful teasing = flirting.

I demand pics when you guys meet!!!
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Old 04-01-2007, 03:12 AM
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Can we just close this thread and pretend it never happend?
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Old 04-01-2007, 04:37 AM
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HAHA you SO were flirting with him. Playful teasing = flirting.

I demand pics when you guys meet!!!
No I wasn't. Playful teasing doesn't=flirting.

You guys, I'm actually losing sleep over this whole thing. Just let it go. It's not that serious, o.k.
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Old 04-01-2007, 08:39 AM
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No I wasn't. Playful teasing doesn't=flirting.

You guys, I'm actually losing sleep over this whole thing. Just let it go. It's not that serious, o.k.
It's not that serious, yet you profess to be losing sleep over it???
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Old 04-01-2007, 09:41 AM
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It's not that serious, yet you profess to be losing sleep over it???
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Old 04-01-2007, 01:55 PM
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I demand pics when you guys meet!!!
We all do I think
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Old 04-01-2007, 07:24 PM
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I demand pics when you guys meet!!!
As long as they don't break a bed...
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Old 04-01-2007, 07:45 PM
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As long as they don't break a bed...
LOL too funny.
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Old 04-01-2007, 07:52 PM
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