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Originally Posted by ChildoftheHorn

If you are still interested in it.... You could talk to some of your friends who are affiliated with a sorority and ask them what they were really looking for. That could give you valuable insight for if you want to try again.

I strongly disagree with this.

I know that general answers like "great personality, outgoing, etc. etc." are harmless, but it leaves the door wide open for discussing membership selection -- and every sorority member knows not to talk about membership selection.

[ChildoftheHorn]

Originally Posted by OTW

I strongly disagree with this.

I know that general answers like "great personality, outgoing, etc. etc." are harmless, but it leaves the door wide open for discussing membership selection -- and every sorority member knows not to talk about membership selection.

I agree. I apologize if it came off that way. I was referring to asking her friends who are affiliated what area about her conversations could have been improved to show her personality better. Going into specifics is not good for either party, especially when it comes down to membership selection. Members should also not be allowed to do that, and doing so would most likely cause frustration for both parties.

Being shy is really hard and friends are a great place to start in helping with this. I used to be a shy person and that helped me a lot.