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Old 03-12-2007, 01:59 PM
ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl is offline
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Before getting worked up about it, I'd ask your Panhellenic rep if this was passed as a bylaw...this is something she should know, and she should be able to get a copy of the bylaw for your chapter.

If not then I don't see how this can be enforced...BUT I believe in picking battles. Is it really that big of a deal? It sounds like you didn't have much to worry about in your profile in the first place, but I'm sure some Greeks on campus do, and honestly, whatever her motives, she's doing them a favor. People just don't understand that anything you put on the internet can be found and used for/against you at some point. Having a totally clean facebook profile in the midst of so many that aren't is going to look good to employers who are pulling up profile after profile with offensives material in it. I think it IS a little harsh to tell a college kid not to be in groups because they include a "cuss" word...I mean, that won't impress employers, but it isn't as offensive as illegal activity, for instance. But she's probably trying to make one rule to cover all bases...for instance...a lot of people joined a group that was something like "What the f did I do last night?...f, no I didn't...I did? F". There is a difference between that and "I wish facebook had a b-slap button".
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Old 03-12-2007, 02:16 PM
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It would make more sense to me if she were reviewing public profiles periodically, but it seems strange to me that she insists on seeing pages that aren't visible to anyone but friends. I think people should be mindful about what they have even on private profiles, but it's hard to figure out how it is panhellenic's business.

And here's a random question: when a person starts looking for jobs or internships, can't he or she deactivate his or her profile completely?
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Old 03-12-2007, 02:20 PM
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If not then I don't see how this can be enforced...BUT I believe in picking battles. Is it really that big of a deal?
Honestly, I think it IS that big of a deal. It's too bad I'm not still in college, because I would DARE the self-appointed internet police to try to control what I have on the internet. What authority does she have for her actions -- someone should question this before she gets even more out of control. She sounds like the Dale -- er, Hoosier of PHC.

It sounds like this woman has her head so far up her ass she doesn't realize how absolutely ridiculous it is for her to try to control what every sorority member posts on facebook. She says she wants to break the "stereotype" of sororities -- so she's being a super-controlling, tightass freak who gets to tell everyone what they can and cannot do on the internet? Please. I think crap like that makes us look even worse than belonging to a group that uses profanity or "bad words" (what does that even mean?).
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Old 03-12-2007, 03:12 PM
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if this facebook rule is not written into the panhellenic bylaws, then she has no more control over facebook photos or groups that sorority members join than the man in the moon. if the rule is not official, and she is trying to create her own rules and standards for everyone else to live by and is bypassing the correct procedure to have a new rule passed, then the other panhellenic officers or the greek life advisor (or all) should tell her that she is out of bounds, a memo should be sent to all the campus sorority presidents stating that, and that should be the end of it.

i would pursue this until you find out what is what.
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Old 03-12-2007, 04:31 PM
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We're having a problem with Facebook as well, but not that someone is going a bit crazy checking them. 3 of the 6 sororities on campus have been put on social probation for Facebook. Someone not in the Greek community reported them, and mainly it was because of only one or two profiles. My chapter is just warning us to make sure they are cleaned up, and have been doing so even before the 3 went on probation.

Our Greek Director of Student Organizations supposedly goes through our Facebook. Personally, you shouldn't put stuff up that would look bad to an employer, etc. but it's your choice. It is getting to be a problem, but I don't think that makes it ok to make people resign from groups, although I understand the whole image of being Greek thing.
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Old 03-12-2007, 05:12 PM
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My personal opinion is that nobody should worry about regulating the image of being Greek. A particular group has an interest in protecting the image of that group, but trying to impose an image standard on the whole system and every individual in it is silly and counter-productive.

However, there's a big difference between trying to contol "image" and using self-posted photographs to decide that people are engaging in activities that are illegal and/or contrary to the schools student code of conduct.

If you are brazen enough to leave up photos of yourself or members of your group breaking the law or school and GLOs rules, you deserve whatever sanctions you get hit with.

And I also think it's weird that it has become a panhellenic officer's job to screen an entire system's facebook pages. That's kind of crazy.

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Old 03-12-2007, 05:55 PM
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Something no one has addressed is that sometimes these pages can present/create safety issues. When people put their schedule of events on there you know where they are going to be when, with who, and if you are on a campus where chapters have houses you know where they live, so possibly when they will/won't be home, etc.

I know that at our last convention "social networking" sites were addressed as being potentially dangerous and not just from a PR/image standpoint.
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Old 03-12-2007, 06:06 PM
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Something no one has addressed is that sometimes these pages can present/create safety issues. When people put their schedule of events on there you know where they are going to be when, with who, and if you are on a campus where chapters have houses you know where they live, so possibly when they will/won't be home, etc.

I know that at our last convention "social networking" sites were addressed as being potentially dangerous and not just from a PR/image standpoint.
Oh, yeah. And not just the events. Kids put addresses and contact info out there. It's a stalker's paradise.
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