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02-21-2007, 05:12 PM
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to bump this thread back up, and because mulattogyrl found it for me at 2:32am...
1. ... she doesn't have an engagement ring because... surprise! the guy she's with (for less than a year mind you) had NO IDEA what's going on! her reasoning being "well, he's still going through stuff with his divorce so i dont want to bother him with this stuff." ummmmmmmm are you going to blindfold him the day of, give his an address and say "wear something nice?"
WEDDINGS SHOULD NOT BE SURPRISE PARTIES!
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 Soror, does HE even know that he's getting married?
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02-22-2007, 06:44 PM
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That's what I was thinking too!
I'm sorry but having little to no budget is no excuse for what she is planning. You can still SMALL but tasteful wedding on a tight budget without the use of mixed tapes and tinfoil plates.
At least use Longaberger or matching tupperware for goodness sakes. 
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02-22-2007, 09:09 PM
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As far as i know, he's a total yes man, so when she was like "oh honey, are you gonna get me a ring?" he said "sure babe." and when she was like "we gonna get married someday right?" he said "sure babe."
well i guess "someday" means a couple of months from now, cause shes been a-planning like the end is near and somehow if it doesnt happen by july, damn be us all.
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02-22-2007, 09:14 PM
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As far as i know, he's a total yes man, so when she was like "oh honey, are you gonna get me a ring?" he said "sure babe." and when she was like "we gonna get married someday right?" he said "sure babe."
well i guess "someday" means a couple of months from now, cause shes been a-planning like the end is near and somehow if it doesnt happen by july, damn be us all.
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Ummm, did he get the final divorce papers in the mail yet? 
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02-23-2007, 10:54 AM
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^^There is the essential question.
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02-23-2007, 09:39 PM
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well i guess "someday" means a couple of months from now, cause shes been a-planning like the end is near and somehow if it doesnt happen by july, damn be us all.
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If the wedding does happen, you will post pictures, riiigghtt???
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02-24-2007, 12:17 AM
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that fool ain't gonna go for this... Of course he is a yes man... he doesn't want to mess up the good thang he had...
sorry but ya Aunt needs to tell him something about this shindig... ya can't have her go down on a surprise wedding...
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WOW! That's funny. 
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shoot... you know like i know... i honestly think they havent even been filed yet.
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that fool ain't gonna go for this... Of course he is a yes man... he doesn't want to mess up the good thang he had...
sorry but ya Aunt needs to tell him something about this shindig... ya can't have her go down on a surprise wedding...
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well, if by "good thing" you mean "lemme tell thiswoman everything she wanna hear so i can move in cause im plannin on leaving my wife and i dont wanna be assed out," then... yeah, i guess its a good thing.
its so crazy - he's not entirely in the dark, but its at a point where my aunt will hide all her wedding magazines, and when the planners call her, she will go in the other room.
listen, weve TRIED telling her that "Secret" weddings are not the way to go... he needs to know especially because he's still married himself. it makes me sad because she's a grown woman (50s) acting like a damn teenager over some dude who tells her all the right things.
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ok SisterGreek... yall have GOTS to sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her about this. She is too grown to have a broken heart like this. that dude is crappy... she don't need him if that is what he is gonna do...
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02-26-2007, 05:57 PM
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shoot... you know like i know... i honestly think they havent even been filed yet.
...listen, weve TRIED telling her that "Secret" weddings are not the way to go... he needs to know especially because he's still married himself. it makes me sad because she's a grown woman (50s) acting like a damn teenager over some dude who tells her all the right things.
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wow.... 
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