I Don't Date Outside of My Race...

RoyalEmpress33 · #1 02-21-2007, 04:33 PM

There are various reasons as to why I choose not to date outside my race.I'll just keep it short and say that I have no desire to date outside my race, I love Black men too much for all that.

DSTCHAOS · #2 02-21-2007, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by RoyalEmpress33

There are various reasons as to why I choose not to date outside my race.I'll just keep it short and say that I have no desire to date outside my race, I love Black men too much for all that.

And I personally don't see a shortage of God fearing, fine as hell, and educationally and professionally accomplished black men who respect and treat women well.

RoyalEmpress33 · #3 02-26-2007, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

And I personally don't see a shortage of God fearing, fine as hell, and educationally and professionally accomplished black men who respect and treat women well.

Agreed.

AlphaFrog · #4 02-26-2007, 11:34 AM

Some outside-of-race eye-candy:

Valentino Lanus.

Love me some latin-men.

tld221 · #5 02-26-2007, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

And I personally don't see a shortage of God fearing, fine as hell, and educationally and professionally accomplished black men who respect and treat women well.

can i come by your town? and see where these such men reside?

Conskeeted7 · #6 02-27-2007, 02:11 AM

Believe it or not, there's a lot of employed, educated, fine, God fearing Black men in Detroit. They are not afraid to treat a woman like a lady either. If I was still on the market, that's where I'd go to find one.

PrettyBoy · #7 03-03-2007, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Conskeeted7

Believe it or not, there's a lot of employed, educated, fine, God fearing Black men in Detroit. They are not afraid to treat a woman like a lady either. If I was still on the market, that's where I'd go to find one.

In Detroit??? Oh Lord.

nonchalant · #8 03-03-2007, 11:53 AM

I know that I couldn't date a white man. I am not sexually attracted to them. As they say, don't knock it until you try it. Well, this white dude was fine, so I tried it(damn Auburn University). The sex was great, but I felt nasty the whole time. It felt too different. The hair texture was all wrong. His lingo and motions were all wrong. He smelled different. That was my first and last white man.

I have dated mixed guys from black/latino to black/white(if they look more black) to puerto rican/black. I suppose you just have to have some black in you.

RoyalEmpress33 · #9 03-03-2007, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by nonchalant

I know that I couldn't date a white man. I am not sexually attracted to them. As they say, don't knock it until you try it. Well, this white dude was fine, so I tried it(damn Auburn University). The sex was great, but I felt nasty the whole time. It felt too different. The hair texture was all wrong. His lingo and motions were all wrong. He smelled different. That was my first and last white man.

I have dated mixed guys from black/latino to black/white(if they look more black) to puerto rican/black. I suppose you just have to have some black in you.

I can agree with you on this...especially Puerto Ricans (with African ancestry)...yum!

starang21 · #10 03-03-2007, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

And I personally don't see a shortage of God fearing, fine as hell, and educationally and professionally accomplished black men who respect and treat women well.

so you're just saying i was just a phase to you?

:sad:

_Opi_ · #11 03-03-2007, 06:15 PM

Sometimes you can't help who you are attracted to. I personally cannot say, I am exclusively attracted to men of the _____ race, because that would be a damn lie.

Race aint nothing but a...

As an aside: I used to find John Mayer sexy, but that all changed when I heard he got with whats her face Jennifer Hewitt.

delph998 · #12 03-03-2007, 06:44 PM

That's what's up Nonchalant. I'm with you, although I've never dated outside my race. I'm attracted to men of other ethnicities and races; but to me, their looks will never compare to a brotha's. I am loyal to African American men--all heights, weights, complexions, socioeconomic statuses, etc. I love my brothas. Nuff said.

Singing Angie Stone's Black Brotha.

"You got your blue collar brotha, light-skinned (dang is that right?) brotha, down for whatever, chillin' on the corner brotha, talented brotha, and to everyone y'all behind bars, you know that Del loves ya!"

cheerfulgreek · #13 03-04-2007, 03:16 AM

Race isn't that important to me. As long as he's a nice guy and I'm physically attracted to him. I've never slept with a black guy before though. I'm not saying I wouldn't, it's just that I've only had white boyfriends.

Where I go to school, interacial dating is very high in this city.

BellaSF · #14 03-04-2007, 10:52 AM

This post actually made me think about the men I've dated. They all were of African (black) descent except one that was half puerto rican. I was acttracted to one Caucasion man my senior year of high school...but he was built like a Greek God and had a really good tan from playing soccer every day. However, I didn't date him. I'm attracted to all types of men from Phillipino to...um...whatever, but my preference has been and always will be black men. They're sexy as heck. I love brown skin! And dark skin on a tall chiseled man is HELLA SEXY!!! Tall, dark and handsome is how I like 'em! Oh, I only date men with Carribbean descent. They're different from regular black americans (no disrespect).

litAKAtor · #15 03-07-2007, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Race isn't that important to me. As long as he's a nice guy and I'm physically attracted to him. I've never slept with a black guy before though. I'm not saying I wouldn't, it's just that I've only had white boyfriends.

Where I go to school, interacial dating is very high in this city.

The question was would you date not sleep with. Not attempting to get this forum off topic, but I am SO tired of other women objectifying our men and using them to get a "taste" of what a brother is like to satisfy some deep longing they have for brothers. Our men are NOT commodities on an auction block to be purchased and sold to the highest bidder for an elicit escapade only to be discarded after they have been used.

(I am for the moment disregarding the fact that many of the brothers allow themselves to be used . . ) Sorry Mods . . .

but to answer the question . . . before I got married, I considered it briefly - not to quench any curiousity, but it was a genuine attraction. I decided being with a brother of another hue was NOT what I wanted to do . . . I love my brothers too much . . ..