I think the "Once a cheater..." adage is dependent on the circumstances. I do think one can learn from their mistakes. I haven't cheated but I was, unknowingly, "the other woman". In fact, it turned out the psycho ex he always complained about was actually his current fiance. After I found out I didn't see him in that way anymore, but we remained friends, which is when I learned that he had 15 or 16 "other women" throughout his relationship with Debbie and was a total slime bucket. At that point, I stopped all communication, even as friends. That kind of guy will never stop cheating...
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