Cheat anyone?

[jon1856]

Never have.
And I have twice been in situations that I could have very easily caused a person to cheat (one on her boyfriend, the other one on her husband)

The good angle on my shoulder stopped me.
However, to this day, the devil on my other shoulder does ask me why?

[LeslieAGD]

I have never cheated and I never will, but I did once date someone who was cheating.

[Coramoor]

I'm also of the opinion that the old adage "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is not true.

I cheated in a previous relationship...and vowed to never do it again. I still feel guilty over it. Recently I was on the other end of the relationship and was cheated on...again, I know that never again will I do that to someone.

My feeling is that if you don't care/love someone enough to stay committed/faithful then it's not even worth being in a relationship with that person. Ending it will be better for both of you.

I also have no respect for anyone that knowingly is with someone that is in a relationship. Especially the people that actively pursue someone that they know is in a relationship. Karma is a bitch and it will come back.

[MTSUGURL]

This past November the boyfriend I had previous to this one decided he was going to go visit his ex in Colorado, who he had described as psycho, unbalanced, etc. What I found out was that they were actually engaged, and he was cheating on her with me.
She and I figured out what was going on, he was confronted, everything came out in the open, and they got married this past Sunday.
I'm glad she's stuck with him and not me.

I've never cheated - forgetting any moral judgement/relationship issues, I simply wouldn't be able to keep names straight. I don't have the energy.

[AGDee]

I think the "Once a cheater..." adage is dependent on the circumstances. I do think one can learn from their mistakes. I haven't cheated but I was, unknowingly, "the other woman". In fact, it turned out the psycho ex he always complained about was actually his current fiance. After I found out I didn't see him in that way anymore, but we remained friends, which is when I learned that he had 15 or 16 "other women" throughout his relationship with Debbie and was a total slime bucket. At that point, I stopped all communication, even as friends. That kind of guy will never stop cheating...

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I think the "Once a cheater..." adage is dependent on the circumstances. I do think one can learn from their mistakes. I haven't cheated but I was, unknowingly, "the other woman". In fact, it turned out the psycho ex he always complained about was actually his current fiance. After I found out I didn't see him in that way anymore, but we remained friends, which is when I learned that he had 15 or 16 "other women" throughout his relationship with Debbie and was a total slime bucket. At that point, I stopped all communication, even as friends. That kind of guy will never stop cheating...

That kind of guy will eventually catch something too, if he hasn't already.