Cheating Men

[Professor]

This is just what I'm talking about - - - for me, it has nothing to do with my maturity. Its about why women are always after men that are not available. I'm just like the next man, sometimes I'm weak and give in to having conversations with women when I should just keep moving. At these times, I set myselft up for trouble.

I was on a visit to Atlanta, and although I know that Atlanta ain't the best city to try to be focused in, the women were rolling up trippin'. It's hard man. Anyway, I came across some women who just didn't give a damn. Some were married, and most weren't. I was with some of my Bruhs, and oh boy, my newly married Sands' would show the women his ring and then he'd say, "oh, I'm married" and some women were like, "so, I didn't ask you that". I was like, okay. The world can be a debauched place, but, its all about the character of both the man and the woman, and ultimately, the role that Christ plays in their lives.

The 7th[/QUOTE]

[btb87]

Tony, this is why I loves you man!

Professor, I'm sure it's hard, but it's not impossible. You can only control you. Not a thing in the world you can do about these women. Don't even try to figure out why they are rolling up on you. YOU JUST DO THE RIGHT THING! So whether you have to walk away or RUN AWAY, then you need to do so. Don't even get caught up. As your frat (TonyB) loves to say, "don't start none, won't be none".

What's the saying about character? It's doing the right thing even when no one is looking.

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally Posted by Professor

This is just what I'm talking about - - - for me, it has nothing to do with my maturity. Its about why women are always after men that are not available. I'm just like the next man, sometimes I'm weak and give in to having conversations with women when I should just keep moving. At these times, I set myselft up for trouble.

I was on a visit to Atlanta, and although I know that Atlanta ain't the best city to try to be focused in, the women were rolling up trippin'. It's hard man. Anyway, I came across some women who just didn't give a damn. Some were married, and most weren't. I was with some of my Bruhs, and oh boy, my newly married Sands' would show the women his ring and then he'd say, "oh, I'm married" and some women were like, "so, I didn't ask you that". I was like, okay. The world can be a debauched place, but, its all about the character of both the man and the woman, and ultimately, the role that Christ plays in their lives.

The 7th

[/QUOTE]

I have always been taught that "the way you get a person, will be the same way you loose them..." meaning, if she is married and throwing it at you, then she will do you the same way with some other man. About the ATL situation, since I have ties to the ATL, I can say, women in the ATL are very aggressive and confident. They will roll up in the parking lot!

[7thSonofOsiris]

I have always been taught that "the way you get a person, will be the same way you loose them..." meaning, if she is married and throwing it at you, then she will do you the same way with some other man. About the ATL situation, since I have ties to the ATL, I can say, women in the ATL are very aggressive and confident. They will roll up in the parking lot![/quote]



Bruh, I agree with you 100%, the women in Atlanta are on a different level. The ratio of male to female is like, less than 1 male for every 21 females, and then you have to figure into that equation, all of the different semantics of what we as a people are facing down there, from that Down Low shit, to the number of incarcerated males, to the number of men who are married but are cheating, to that lower numeric of males who are single and trying to take care of business. It's such a rough game. Nationally and statistically though, its the worst place for "us" to be married. That's pretty bad considering how much we are interwoven into the fabric of the city, but, I think that the many different facets to how we're living down there, is negatively impacting what could be an awesome place for us to converge with our beautiful sisters, and to make families and to live progressively.
Let me ask you this though Bruh. In regards to people schooling us that, "the way we get them is the way we'll lose them", does that mean that we should anticipate that it's inevitable that we are going to lose them, regardless of what we do, how hard we work, or how much we love them? What's the truth, mang?

the7th

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally Posted by 7thSonofOsiris

Let me ask you this though Bruh. In regards to people schooling us that, "the way we get them is the way we'll lose them", does that mean that we should anticipate that it's inevitable that we are going to lose them, regardless of what we do, how hard we work, or how much we love them? What's the truth, mang?

the7th

I think that is meaning, that if you get a woman who is still in a relationship, then if she is cheating to be with you, then she will sooner or later cheat on you!

[AKA2D '91]

Onnnnnnnnnnn the next episode of 'Black Men Revealed'...

[lovelyivy84]

Originally Posted by AKA2D '91

Onnnnnnnnnnn the next episode of 'Black Men Revealed'...

LOL

Ahhh blast from the past threads...

[TonyB06]

Originally Posted by AKA2D '91

Onnnnnnnnnnn the next episode of 'Black Men Revealed'...

ahh, here come them signifying AKAs .if they wasn't so dayum fine ...

[PrettyBoy]

I'm kool single. I would like to be in a serious relationship, but it's too hard to tell if she's right. Plus all of the things that have to be done from the beginning. The whole idea of getting to know the person all over again. The last woman I was with, we were together for 8 years. It didn't work out, now I can't see starting all over again. It's like designing something on a computer that you've been working on for hours without saving what you've done while working, and then all of the sudden the computer freezes up on you. Now you have to reboot it and start all over again. That sucks.