Confessions...

[kiml122]

Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

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[BellaSF]

Whenever I meet a guy I don't like or change my mind about a guy I'm dating to get rid of him I pretend that I'm crazy. I will laugh hysterically for no reason at all, call repeatedly and talk about dumb stuff &/or tell them I'm Lucifer and start to roar(lol). I may even give them the rejection hotline number if I'm in a different state.

[Kamryn]

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally Posted by Kamryn

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

^^^I have had similar situations. Very few people in my families have successful relationships or marriages. As a man, I come from a LONG line of cheating men, but I recognize the generational curse. I seriously pray on a regular basis to allow me to break this cycle. In order to keep from following in the same path, I have chosen to be single (for right now) because I haven't met the right woman yet. Don't downplay your independence because some men find independence sexy. I am one who does. It is okay to be independent, but the factor is being able to negotiate!

[Kamryn]

While I’m in the confessing mood, I’ll add something else…

I had a class a few years ago that I was struggling in. At the end of the semester I was border-line of a B- and C+ my professor offered me a higher grade in exchange for sex. I said no, and I ended up with a C-. Still think about it years later…especially when I look at my transcripts. I should have I should have reported his nasty @$$. Always wish I did. I remember hearing rumors about him doing that to other girls, and some of them actually admitted it. I wouldn’t even think about it. Instead, I left it alone, stayed silent, and kept my C-. He should have been fired! I wish I reported him.

[DSTdimepiece]

You know I like you, but I don't know if I can deal with all the other chicks who give blatant attention. Some are cool, but some are down right audacious and I would be embarassed to conduct myself in such a manner ESPECIALLY in a church setting.

[humbleme]

Originally Posted by Kamryn

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

THIS....is the story of my LIFE! I'm with you 100% on this one. Everytime i think there is even a remote chance that i may get involved with someone, i start to back away, thinking "i dont know the first thing about being in a relationship, and this guy shouldnt even waste his time"

[WenD08]

w/that kind of thinking, then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
just something to think about. if you think you'll be alone, you just might