How soon do you get serious??

[cutie_cat_4ever]

Originally Posted by AOII_LB93

To each their own, but a year minimum in my book...then at least you are semi out of the infatuation stage and know what it's like to be together when it's not all hot and heavy. Reality sets in...and sometimes reality is a good thing. I think the above girl had she had gotten to know him better would have had second thoughts at this point.

I agree. Sometimes you may get blind with this whole warm fuzzy feeling and once you get used to it, it fades and you may not feel the link afterall.

I personally think the best as, LB93 says, to wait until that stage is gone, no matter how long it takes, then you will truly know if he's the right guy for you. You will know if you can picture yourself spending the rest of your life with him

[BetteDavisEyes]

My hubby's cousin and her fiance are getting married this January after only knowing & dating each other for 6 months. I think it's stupidity to the max but then again, she's 19.

I think that a year is at least a minimum.