When Loyalty and Ignorance Clash

[PhDiva]

I think your bruhs need to talk to "K" and let him know that you guys don't appreciate him running off at the mouth at the expense of the rest of you like LadyGreek said. But you need to be clear that if a situation like this happens again, bruhman is on his own. Unfortunately, that's the only way some folks learn.

[mccoyred]

Originally Posted by PhDiva

I think your bruhs need to talk to "K" and let him know that you guys don't appreciate him running off at the mouth at the expense of the rest of you like LadyGreek said. But you need to be clear that if a situation like this happens again, bruhman is on his own. Unfortunately, that's the only way some folks learn.

Exactly! K needs to get a grip because he definitely got what he deserved. He better watch his back because the basketball team as a whole may have it out for him.

[Senusret I]

I ain't fightin' no basketball players.

Not now. Not never.

[jojapeach]

If he's so worried about his LBs and chapter repping for him, he should be forced to recognize that he should rep himself and KAPsi in the best way possible. He should get beyond that middle school behavior and start to recognize, "So what would happen if I did this?" The chapter or his LBs are not obligated to back up him up when he's starting up isht and then keeping it up.

If he didn't learn how to deal with conflicts and people before or during his process, he's going to have to learn it after his process the hard way. It doesn't sound like he's learned anything since the brawl. I agree with Soror PhDiva that his bruhs may have to sit "K" down and talk to him straight, no chaser.

[Cain]

I told him the same thing everyone is saying. But dude, is just hard headed for no reason. I told him that people have problems fightin for no reason, especially when they feel forced to do so( i.e The Iraq War). But dude is just in his own world.

But the catch 22 is that it looks bad on the yard as the frat is concerned. Because we didn't take an active approach in helping him, now people question aour unity. I can't say I blame them because perception is law. At the same time, most people don't know the REAL story.

[Japan357]

So you let your bruh lay on the ground in his own house and get jumped by the BBall team and the rest of his frat sat and watched?

Even though he was the "asshole" that brought it on himself that still is unimaginable. I'm not saying you all should have gotten into a war with the BBall team but at the very least you should have protected your bruh. Grab him get between the people fighting and get him out of the room while the other bruhs separate the BBall players and kick them out. Then once outside you can talk and apologize say its nothing personal but you just had to look out for your boy in ya'll house and then talk to "K" about his crazy behaviors.

That would look incredibly suspekt on the yard, now everyone thinks the BBall team punked the frat and ya'll aint doin nothin about it.