New Member bonding!

[DreamfulSpirit]

whenever we did mocktail or pledge retreat, we would play a game called "two truths and a lie" and everyone had to come up with 3 things to say about themselves, two being true, and one being a lie, and everyone else had to guess what the lie was.

[violetpretty]

This isn't really an activity for the new members to bond with each other, but moreso with the chapter, but it relates to new members nonetheless so I'll share. Before the new members chose their bigs, our new member educator had an event called "I Want to be a Big Speed Dating". Each member who wanted a little made a flier about herself and then the new members and potential bigs had conversations with everyone speed dating style!

[adpiucf]

An overnight sisterhood lockdown at the house, an on-campus facility like a gym (bring sleeping bags!), etc. Have plenty of food, do an ice breaker (your Greek Adviser or Resident Life Director is sure to have books of ice breakers), and review chapter policies by assigning small groups to perform skits to teach the others. Teach songs, do a craft project, etc.

One fun ice-breaker is the "M&M's" game-- pass around a bag of M&M's. Each color represents something (make it up-- IE: Green means say something nice about the person next to you; Brown means tell us your favorite thing about the sorority so far, etc.)

One method my chapter used to help everyone get to know the new members was to take a manila envelope, some old magazines, markers, glue and the new member's photo. Decorate the envelope with your photo and create a collage all about you. Include your name. Hang these around the chapter room and throughout the new member period, these envelopes will serve as mailboxes where all members are encouraged to leave notes for the new members. It is a great way to get to match faces to names for all the members and getting the notes makes you feel so special! The new members can also present their mailbox to the rest of the class and tell the other new sisters about themselves when they make them at new member retreat so the new members get to know one another too.

Another activity-- make up a new sisterhood song to teach to the chapter and have the chapter members incorporate it into the chapter song book!

Also, the next morning, have the entire chapter come to the retreat to surprise the new members with breakfast. Stage an all-chapter activity so that the entire chapter can bond and integrate the new members into the sorority. It is good for the new members to bond, but aim for all-chapter unity as opposed to pledge class unity only-- this helps to build the chapter up and helps to eliminate pledge class cliques. Go canoeing, rollerskating, play field games, etc.

A good retreat keepsake-- cut a uniform shape out of construction paper: heart, diamond, 5-point crown, 4 petal flower, etc.... Give one to each girl and a piece of tape for her to tape it to her back. Each person gets a pen or marker and writes a nice note on each girl's back-- it is a great memory of retreat!