A GC Tragedy...

[PM_Mama00]

Originally Posted by blueangel

In all reality, I think John cares a lot about this website which is why he's cleaning it up.

Newsflash: This isn't a playground for adult bullies to work out their insecurity issues through attacking others.

This is supposed to be a site for Greeks and those who are seeking Greek membership to share ideas, ask questions, and enjoy each other's company free from harrassing and snarky remarks.

Here's an idea.... Why don't you start your own forum? That way, you and your pals don't have to follow any TOS. You can yuk it up and backslap each other on who made the snarkiest remarks.. You can make yourself feel important by trying to out-nasty each other all you want. You can use all the foul language you desire... and you can even make up all the mean spirited parody posts you like and no one will delete your posts.

I understand Delphi offers free forums. You might want to start there.

Fun Fact: Last time I checked, this wasn't a forum for sorority recruiting. And last time I checked, I'm pretty sure sorority HQs wouldn't appreciate somebody, ESPECIALLY someone who is NOT one of their members, to try to recruit people and help people AI on an internet board, even when they haven't met the person in real life. So stop trying to make yourself sound like the most innocent person on here. You've already been proven to be pretty guilty, and you're going against many NPC sorority sisters' wishes. Do yourself a favor and just stop posting.

[AlexMack]

Originally Posted by PM_Mama00

Fun Fact: Last time I checked, this wasn't a forum for sorority recruiting. And last time I checked, I'm pretty sure sorority HQs wouldn't appreciate somebody, ESPECIALLY someone who is NOT one of their members, to try to recruit people and help people AI on an internet board, even when they haven't met the person in real life. So stop trying to make yourself sound like the most innocent person on here. You've already been proven to be pretty guilty, and you're going against many NPC sorority sisters' wishes. Do yourself a favor and just stop posting.

Why won't this goddamn I key work?! I I I I I!!!!

[blueangel]

Originally Posted by PM_Mama00

Fun Fact: Last time I checked, this wasn't a forum for sorority recruiting. And last time I checked, I'm pretty sure sorority HQs wouldn't appreciate somebody, ESPECIALLY someone who is NOT one of their members, to try to recruit people and help people AI on an internet board, even when they haven't met the person in real life. So stop trying to make yourself sound like the most innocent person on here. You've already been proven to be pretty guilty, and you're going against many NPC sorority sisters' wishes. Do yourself a favor and just stop posting.

Who is recruiting?

You say a lie often enough and people tend to believe it. Soldier on..

[blueangel]

Originally Posted by PM_Mama00

Fun Fact: Last time I checked, this wasn't a forum for sorority recruiting. And last time I checked, I'm pretty sure sorority HQs wouldn't appreciate somebody, ESPECIALLY someone who is NOT one of their members, to try to recruit people and help people AI on an internet board, even when they haven't met the person in real life. So stop trying to make yourself sound like the most innocent person on here. You've already been proven to be pretty guilty, and you're going against many NPC sorority sisters' wishes. Do yourself a favor and just stop posting.

Oh wait! Maybe you have me confused with someone else?

8-11-2003, 01:28 PM
SmartBlondeGPhB
Moderator

Advice to PNAMs from an involved alumna

I (and others) have said this before but I feel it
needs some extra emphasis and I would like to add one
comment to all PNAM's.

I can understand your hesitancy to reveal who you are
pursuing to the whole board, however...........

There are a number of us on this board who are very
involved in our GLO's locally and internationally. If
you are having trouble getting in touch with a certain
GLO that you really desire, please contact us
privately and let us help. We have quick and easy ways
to get you the information you need without revealing
any information about you. We can also contact the AC
and inquire on your behalf and can be as discreet as
you desire.

I'm sure I echo the sentiments of others on the board,
but I hate to see the PNAMs having so much trouble
with simply making contact.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by blueangel

Oh wait! Maybe you have me confused with someone else?

8-11-2003, 01:28 PM
SmartBlondeGPhB
Moderator

Advice to PNAMs from an involved alumna

I (and others) have said this before but I feel it
needs some extra emphasis and I would like to add one
comment to all PNAM's.

I can understand your hesitancy to reveal who you are
pursuing to the whole board, however...........

There are a number of us on this board who are very
involved in our GLO's locally and internationally. If
you are having trouble getting in touch with a certain
GLO that you really desire, please contact us
privately and let us help. We have quick and easy ways
to get you the information you need without revealing
any information about you. We can also contact the AC
and inquire on your behalf and can be as discreet as
you desire.

I'm sure I echo the sentiments of others on the board,
but I hate to see the PNAMs having so much trouble
with simply making contact.

Putting them in touch with a local member is very different than being their sponsor. I put women in touch with local members all the time. If someone approaches me and says "Hi, I want to be a Gamma Phi Beta" I'll help them take that first step. After that, it's up to them to not be crazy and up to the alumnae chapter to see if they are a good fit.

[deadbear80]

I've read a lot of what's gone on without posting...but I feel like it's time to put in my $.02:

While I ended up in the right house when I rushed, there was another house I thought I wanted more (and was dropped from there before prefs). While I was happy to accept my bid, I harbored a small feeling of want for that other chapter. On Bid Day they lined us up to go into the sorority suites--and in the line for that other chapter were some of the rudest, snottiest, and meanest girls I had met in college thus far (2 of whom lived on my freshman floor)...and in that moment I realized "Thank G-D they're not my sisters!".
I feel that way now too--to post private information on a public board is the most below-the-belt tactic I've ever seen in order to get attention. If so many people on this board upset you, yes, you have the right to be here, but maybe this isn't the right place for you.
Props to OTW, ariesrising, and the other girls for nicely putting you in your place--if you're really older than I am (and it seems so) then I surely expect more you--be a lady. And grow up. Realize that not everyone shares your opinion--and that's fine--you can have your own--but shoving it down people's throats in a wholly unacceptable way doesn't earn friend points. There's a reason you feel attacked--you're the one attacking--all people are doing is holding up a mirror and letting things bounce back.
You're like that little bug that won't just lay down and die after being squashed--haven't you had enough yet?

/end hijack and rant

[cutie_cat_4ever]

Originally Posted by deadbear80

I've read a lot of what's gone on without posting...but I feel like it's time to put in my $.02:

While I ended up in the right house when I rushed, there was another house I thought I wanted more (and was dropped from there before prefs). While I was happy to accept my bid, I harbored a small feeling of want for that other chapter. On Bid Day they lined us up to go into the sorority suites--and in the line for that other chapter were some of the rudest, snottiest, and meanest girls I had met in college thus far (2 of whom lived on my freshman floor)...and in that moment I realized "Thank G-D they're not my sisters!".
I feel that way now too--to post private information on a public board is the most below-the-belt tactic I've ever seen in order to get attention. If so many people on this board upset you, yes, you have the right to be here, but maybe this isn't the right place for you.
Props to OTW, ariesrising, and the other girls for nicely putting you in your place--if you're really older than I am (and it seems so) then I surely expect more you--be a lady. And grow up. Realize that not everyone shares your opinion--and that's fine--you can have your own--but shoving it down people's throats in a wholly unacceptable way doesn't earn friend points. There's a reason you feel attacked--you're the one attacking--all people are doing is holding up a mirror and letting things bounce back.
You're like that little bug that won't just lay down and die after being squashed--haven't you had enough yet?

/end hijack and rant

*claps hard*

[ReachTheLimit]

Originally Posted by deadbear80

I've read a lot of what's gone on without posting...but I feel like it's time to put in my $.02:

While I ended up in the right house when I rushed, there was another house I thought I wanted more (and was dropped from there before prefs). While I was happy to accept my bid, I harbored a small feeling of want for that other chapter. On Bid Day they lined us up to go into the sorority suites--and in the line for that other chapter were some of the rudest, snottiest, and meanest girls I had met in college thus far (2 of whom lived on my freshman floor)...and in that moment I realized "Thank G-D they're not my sisters!".
I feel that way now too--to post private information on a public board is the most below-the-belt tactic I've ever seen in order to get attention. If so many people on this board upset you, yes, you have the right to be here, but maybe this isn't the right place for you.
Props to OTW, ariesrising, and the other girls for nicely putting you in your place--if you're really older than I am (and it seems so) then I surely expect more you--be a lady. And grow up. Realize that not everyone shares your opinion--and that's fine--you can have your own--but shoving it down people's throats in a wholly unacceptable way doesn't earn friend points. There's a reason you feel attacked--you're the one attacking--all people are doing is holding up a mirror and letting things bounce back.
You're like that little bug that won't just lay down and die after being squashed--haven't you had enough yet?

/end hijack and rant

Sometimes it's called "getting a taste of your own medicine".

I wouldn't put everyone in the "lady' catagory when OTW's myspace reads like an advertisement for porn.

You are right, I don't know these people, but in cases like OTW, a quick review of her myspace will tell the world she swallows. That's more info than I want to know about the majority of people in general.

[cutie_cat_4ever]

Originally Posted by ReachTheLimit

Sometimes it's called "getting a taste of your own medicine".

I wouldn't put everyone in the "lady' catagory when OTW's myspace reads like an advertisement for porn.

You are right, I don't know these people, but in cases like OTW, a quick review of her myspace will tell the world she swallows. That's more info than I want to know about the majority of people in general.

wow, you stalk people too???

[ReachTheLimit]

Originally Posted by cutie_cat_4ever

wow, you stalk people too???

No stalking to it, she's posted the link and her myspace screen name on GC.

[tunatartare]

Originally Posted by ReachTheLimit

That's more info than I want to know about the majority of people in general.

A simple solution would be not to look at her myspace then.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by ReachTheLimit

a quick review of her myspace will tell the world she swallows.

The fact that you think something is wrong with swallowing explains a LOT.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by 33girl

The fact that you think something is wrong with swallowing explains a LOT.

[WCUgirl]

Originally Posted by 33girl

The fact that you think something is wrong with swallowing explains a LOT.

Haha, I completely missed that post.

OMGWTFBBQ you can get preggers from swallowing?

[blueangel]

Originally Posted by deadbear80

I've read a lot of what's gone on without posting...but I feel like it's time to put in my $.02:

While I ended up in the right house when I rushed, there was another house I thought I wanted more (and was dropped from there before prefs). While I was happy to accept my bid, I harbored a small feeling of want for that other chapter. On Bid Day they lined us up to go into the sorority suites--and in the line for that other chapter were some of the rudest, snottiest, and meanest girls I had met in college thus far (2 of whom lived on my freshman floor)...and in that moment I realized "Thank G-D they're not my sisters!".
I feel that way now too--to post private information on a public board is the most below-the-belt tactic I've ever seen in order to get attention. If so many people on this board upset you, yes, you have the right to be here, but maybe this isn't the right place for you.
Props to OTW, ariesrising, and the other girls for nicely putting you in your place--if you're really older than I am (and it seems so) then I surely expect more you--be a lady. And grow up. Realize that not everyone shares your opinion--and that's fine--you can have your own--but shoving it down people's throats in a wholly unacceptable way doesn't earn friend points. There's a reason you feel attacked--you're the one attacking--all people are doing is holding up a mirror and letting things bounce back.
You're like that little bug that won't just lay down and die after being squashed--haven't you had enough yet?

/end hijack and rant

It gets quite uncomfortable when people say one thing, and then their past posts come back to prove that they were guilty of doing exactly what they have criticized, doesn't it? It's also quite convenient to rewrite history... that is.. until you're caught.