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Personally I would stand by my husband. Yes he did something despicable and worthy of punishment; however, he is still my husband. I love this man and my love for my husband will not just turn off instantly. I will be deeply saddened if it was true, or even he was found guilty, but I would also forgive him if he asked me to forgive him. We can't hold grudges against anyone, especially someone we have loved and grown to know over the years. Like I said before i would be extremely hurt and betrayed upon whether it is true or not. Prayerfully my husband will be honest with me if I question him about it. If I found out he lied to me then that may be grounds for dismissal but not before then. I will stand by him through this time. He needs me more than ever during this time. I saw how my aunt stood by the name of her husband when i told my family what he did to me. I commended her for standing by him, but I also resented her for not believing me and calling me a liar. I cannot judge my husband, leave his side, or anything until all the FACTS are presented. When you truly love someone, you love them unconditionally and I especially mean that when I will make my marriage vows.
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