Need some Advice

[Collegegirl822]

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[PeppyGPhiB]

Originally Posted by Collegegirl822

also, I didn't leave beacuse of anything bad about the chapter.. it was purely personal reasons. so I have only good things to say about the house I was in.

This type of reason would actually make you more of a risk, in my opinion. I hope your personal reasons have been resolved? If not, what is there to keep you from de-pledging another chapter? If you honestly just didn't have much in common with the women in the first chapter, I would understand that.

[AGDee]

I might also wonder why you didn't return to your original chapter. One of my sister-daughter's had a bunch of things happen during the semester she was pledging (grandma died, broke her foot, had to drop out of school for the semester) and we just held her over until the next semester. Usually chapters can work things out with you if it's truly only personal reasons.

[KerriMarie]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I might also wonder why you didn't return to your original chapter. One of my sister-daughter's had a bunch of things happen during the semester she was pledging (grandma died, broke her foot, had to drop out of school for the semester) and we just held her over until the next semester. Usually chapters can work things out with you if it's truly only personal reasons.

That happened to one of my little sisters too - she had to leave Kappa, and it was so sad, but she came back the next semester - yay happy times! Then I ended up with "twin" little sisters.