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09-20-2006, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted by _Opi_
No offense, but to the people saying that virgins are not (generally) comfortable with their sexuality, I would have to disagree. A person can be comfortable with their sexuality and exercise some self-control (let's say because of religious values) AND not everyone has "emotional" baggage because their hymen is intact.
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I don't disagree at all - there are clearly a wide variety of reasons and realities for virginity. In and of itself, virginity is not a problem.
The problem are the associated effects, some of which are unavoidable - for instance, without having had sex, it would be somewhat difficult to know what a person desires out of sexual intercourse, or how to best achieve those things.
Beside that, I'm sure you'll agree that there are plenty of people who have sex frequently who aren't comfortable with their sexuality - hell, that's the very reason some people have frequent sex. However, I do think that there is some relationship between experience and comfort, for a large number of people - but I would absolutely never rule anything out, just like you've pointed out.
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09-20-2006, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl
LOL. You're right, they might be comfortable with themselves, but I think the emotions come in once the 'deed' is done. It may very well not though.
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I dunno. At first I wanted to lose my virginity to a very special man on a magical night. Now I want to lose my virginity to an excaped convict with a snake bite on his chest and an artificial eye, in the back of a vacant and broke-down Greyhound bus on a highway shoulder.
Definately not sentimental, but a story that I can tell to most of my friends, or post on collegestories.com!
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09-20-2006, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl
LOL. You're right, they might be comfortable with themselves, but I think the emotions come in once the 'deed' is done. It may very well not though.
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Emotions and sex typically go hand in hand. Or so I would assume?
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09-20-2006, 06:03 PM
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Now I want to lose my virginity to an excaped convict with a snake bite on his chest and an artificial eye, in the back of a vacant and broke-down Greyhound bus on a highway shoulder.
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LMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAO!!!!
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Originally Posted by _Opi_
Emotions and sex typically go hand in hand. Or so I would assume?
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Not always  , but it probably should.
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09-20-2006, 06:43 PM
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Not always , but it probably should.[/QUOTE]
lol
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09-20-2006, 07:49 PM
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If a girl says she's only slept with like 2 guys, the thought that comes to mind is "She probably sucked at least 200 dicks last year alone."
-Rudey
--And if you see what the guys look liked, they look like circus freaks and then it's fun because you never let her live that down.
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09-23-2006, 02:11 AM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
LOL so you're saying that you're terribly boring in bed. That's all well and good, even if you find yourself a nice, basic virgin, but I'll tell you this -- one day, she'll be in her thirties, and I'll bet you $$$ that she'll be bored with your vanilla sex. I suppose your best option is to make sure she pops out a bunch of kids by then and is too exhausted to think about it.
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Hey if not doing that freaky nasty stuff makes me boring in bed, then I guess I must be. Cuz I ain't doin' that nasty stuff, and I wouldn't be with someone who does. By the way I'm sure you've kissed some freak, well that must only mean one thing when you kissed them. Your mouth has been where ever theirs has. LMAO
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09-23-2006, 02:14 AM
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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl
I agree with you. I think I'd rather deal with someone who's comfortable in their sexuality. A virgin probably wouldn't be, not to mention the emotional baggage that would come with a virgin. Yes, I'm a female and I said it. LOL
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I think the females that have slept around come with the baggage. Plus I can't even kiss women like that. I don't know where their mouths have been. I take that back. That's the very reason why I wouldn't kiss them because of where their mouths have been. LMAO.
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09-23-2006, 02:15 AM
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Originally Posted by KSig RC
See, this isn't really a 'deal-breaker' for me - I've obviously freaked several others before her, so there's really no room for me to show off hangups about it, you know?
It would be really hypocritical of me.
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LOL.
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09-23-2006, 02:18 AM
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Originally Posted by _Opi_
You sound to me like you want a submissive, settling type of woman. You probably couldn't handle a woman who knows what she wants. 
No offense, but to the people saying that virgins are not (generally) comfortable with their sexuality, I would have to disagree. A person can be comfortable with their sexuality and exercise some self-control (let's say because of religious values) AND not everyone has "emotional" baggage because their hymen is intact. |
I can handle any woman that comes my way, but I choose not to deal with the hoes.
You're right about the moral values.
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09-23-2006, 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Rudey
If a girl says she's only slept with like 2 guys, the thought that comes to mind is "She probably sucked at least 200 dicks last year alone."
-Rudey
--And if you see what the guys look liked, they look like circus freaks and then it's fun because you never let her live that down.
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LMAO. Toooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo funny.
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09-23-2006, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted by KAY10
Hey if not doing that freaky nasty stuff makes me boring in bed, then I guess I must be. Cuz I ain't doin' that nasty stuff, and I wouldn't be with someone who does. By the way I'm sure you've kissed some freak, well that must only mean one thing when you kissed them. Your mouth has been where ever theirs has. LMAO
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What exactly qualifies as "nasty" to you? There's a lot of ground between boring and "nasty" -- at least in my opinion.
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09-24-2006, 04:23 AM
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What exactly qualifies as "nasty" to you? There's a lot of ground between boring and "nasty" -- at least in my opinion.
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Too nasty to even post.
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09-24-2006, 08:33 AM
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Too nasty to even post.
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That doesn't leave much around here.
Case in point: Do a search for "BabyP"
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09-24-2006, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by KAY10
Hey if not doing that freaky nasty stuff makes me boring in bed, then I guess I must be. Cuz I ain't doin' that nasty stuff, and I wouldn't be with someone who does. By the way I'm sure you've kissed some freak, well that must only mean one thing when you kissed them. Your mouth has been where ever theirs has. LMAO
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EL OH EL.
Apparently you only kiss women with poor dental hygiene. And have you ever kissed your mom? Because it's safe to assume where her mouth has been...
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