Dying Wish: Is this sweet or morbid?

[33girl]

"He told me that when Adam and Eve were married in the Garden of Eden, that God was the one who performed the ceremony -- and they didn't need a marriage license either," Nicole said.

Umm OK. They didn't need a lot of other things, like building permits, either.

If they want to have a commitment ceremony that's fine, but I think there are probably people in her congregation (or denomination) that aren't crazy about it being performed by a minister in a church. It's not the same as a gay marriage because they COULD legally get married - they're just not because of the insurance.

I don't know, something about this just bugs me.

[xo_kathy]

Originally Posted by 33girl

If they want to have a commitment ceremony that's fine, but I think there are probably people in her congregation (or denomination) that aren't crazy about it being performed by a minister in a church.

So? What concern is it of them? If it bothers them that much, they should change churches. The Methodists are a farily liberal crew anyway, so I doubt too many people cared - especially giving the circumstances.

In terms of the wish, I also don't see the creepiness of it. Yes she's young, but it's not like she's 13. She knows she's gonna die, it's a huge life event she wanted to experience, that's it.

[Drolefille]

I think it's sweet. And I suspect the only major difference is that they won't be signing a marriage license at the end.

If some people are more concerned about the assumed extra-marital sex that will be happening on the honeymoon then what this is really about, then they need more things to do with all that time on their hands.

[MTSUGURL]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

If some people are more concerned about the assumed extra-marital sex that will be happening on the honeymoon then what this is really about, then they need more things to do with all that time on their hands.

They made a point to say that the mother would be chaperoning the honeymoon.

She looked lovely, and he looked happy. I think it's a little odd, but very sweet.

[f8nacn]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

If some people are more concerned about the assumed extra-marital sex that will be happening on the honeymoon then what this is really about, then they need more things to do with all that time on their hands.

I'm sure not much will be going on during their honeymoon as her mom will be chaperoning their trip!

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by f8nacn

I'm sure not much will be going on during their honeymoon as her mom will be chaperoning their trip!

oh, now that's some bull sh*t, that poor guy......and girl, before she dies of cancer. They should get that experinece she is 17 in love and dying

[James]

It would be funny if mom was like, "you are too young to have sex . . ."

Will she follow it up with a wait till you are older speech?

Originally Posted by f8nacn

I'm sure not much will be going on during their honeymoon as her mom will be chaperoning their trip!