ok...here's the situation

[MaMaBuddha]

for sorors, bruhs, and fellow greeks...


you and your spouse live together and you share all of the items in your apartment.

one day you come home and notice your computer on and your spouses email account opened on the desktop.

do you:

a) close the account by signing off without reading your spouses email?
b) leave it up with out reading it and let your spouse close it themselves?
c) read every bit of juicy information that might be in their email account?

please explain why......


and if your answer just happens to be c, you can continue...

you read your spouses email and find out some pretty hot and heavy stuff from an admire and it seems mutual....

do you:

a) say nothing about it and act as if everything is okay?
b) drop sutle hints about getting rid of the computer, it takes up too much space.
c) get revenge by changing the locks on the door and doing a waiting to exhale number on their personal belongings?
d) step to your spouse and be like WTF?!?!?!?!


please explain your answers...

[jetsetter1913]

I would choose b) and not read it. But if I did...then I would step to him, and be like "WTF??!!" The only reason I would read it in the first place, is if I had some questions about our relationship. If I think my boyfriend is cheating, and I have some information that would back that up, it would come out of me sooner or later..... so why let that drag on and affect the relationship?

[ClassyLady]

I would read it. Me and my boyfriend read each other's email all of the time. Sometimes, he'll ask my to check his when I check mine. Hopefully, he wouldn't be dumb enough to get those knids of messages when he knows that I'll probably end up reading them. If he was smart, he'd have another email account that I didn't know about and have his nasty stuff sent there. Even so, I'd read and curse his a$$ out.

[Sugar_N_Spice]

Originally posted by jetsetter1913
I would choose b) and not read it. But if I did...then I would step to him, and be like "WTF??!!" The only reason I would read it in the first place, is if I had some questions about our relationship. If I think my boyfriend is cheating, and I have some information that would back that up, it would come out of me sooner or later..... so why let that drag on and affect the relationship?

I would do exactly what Jetsetter would have did...to the "T"...

[kiml122]

B

We walk around the house all the time not reading each other's email. Now mind you he has his computer and I have mine also. But there are times that he will be on mine or vise versa, and it's no big deal.