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Originally Posted by lake
Yes, yes, yes!! Everything she said - yes!!
The so-called "down side" of AI should be mentioned because it is not necessarily all sunshine and roses (as ariesrising mentioned).
As an example, as an AI I never had the benefit of having a song chair to teach me Tri Delta songs. Another example is I never had the experience of weekly meetings to experience ritual and meeting protocol on a regular basis. You really need to be motivated all the time to put yourself out there and put your best face forward and be pro-active to get things moving initially, even after your initiation, when you may only know a handful of people really well. It is not instant friendships and bonding by any means just because you've gone through a ceremony. You need to establish and nurture that yourself on an on-going basis, which is true for any important relationship.
Did I realize all this before I was invited to membership? Absolutely. I had no illusions whatsoever. I knew it might be awkward initially but I also figured I was motivated enough and loved the organization enough that I would give it my best and make it work. I knew I would eventually come "up to speed" and be a fully contributing member, but that it would most definitely take a lot of work and initiative on my part, long after the initiation ceremony.
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Same here too. The first IRD I went to, I mouthed some of the songs because I didn't want to look like I didn't know the words! I eventually learned them, of course, but sometimes, I *STILL* feel out of place when alumnae are talking about their collegian experiences...thank goodness this doesn't happen very often
I enjoy being with my sisters and will be participating in a big project my chapter's doing this coming fall!
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