greek girlie:
Let me tell you that the SAME thing happened on my campus. A fraternity on our campus was still surviving only b/c their alums were huge donators to our college. They were the first fraternity that I hung out at when I came to school. And wouldn't you know that the Kappa Delts hung out there too!
Even though they were small and looked at as "geeks", I loved them! I always said, "I could lay here screaming for sex, drunk as a skunk, then pass out...these guys would put a blanket on me and make sure I was safe."
Well, thanks to the KDs rushing hard for them, as well as the freshman girls I knew, their numbers increased. They started getting a very good mix of guys in the house....
and do they hang out with the KDs anymore?
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They completely dropped us from their social schedule, even informally. Most of them now have gfs in a more "elite" sorority, and these guys actively rush against us! I could understand if they rushed women more toward their gfs' sorority....but they don't have to say nasty things about us!
Grrr.....ok, my anger is now easing out of my body. I just had to get that out!!