it all depends on body shape
For women, I think whether someone is "fat" or not depends a lot on how they carry the weight, not on the number on the scale. Someone who has an "hourglass" shape can weigh more and look better than someone at that same height/weight who has no hips and a big belly. I think I weigh more than the typical college girl at my height (5'5 and 135), but I have curves and fairly big boobs, and I definitely have a waist. I figure if I can consistently wear a size 6, why worry about it. I could probably lose 5 pounds if I cared enough to make the effort it would take.
People probably shouldn't make such a big deal out of weight. I actually LIKE guys with a little meat on them... I mean, what girl wants to feel like a whale next to her man, in bed (just because he is skinny)?? I'm sure most guys aren't as judgmental about a girl's weight as we girls often think.
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