dilemma

[MightyQuinn]

Originally Posted by dzdst796

That is so the correct and mature way to go, but I still would want to knock her out if she continued to do it.

Believe me when I say I would want to bop the hoe in the back of the neck too but I'm sure calmer heads would prevail...I hope

[ZetaStorm]

OK that situation is a little crazy. I crossed in spring 92 and then it was common for us to greet another greek by using our call which was then followed by their call and all of the Greeks did this. But even then it was spoken not really called. It was short and quick. It was considered a matter of respect. We didn't use it to get anyone's attention but it was more like saying hello. We could be passing on the yard or whatever. Now in your situation I'm not sure what in the world is going on there. I've never experienced another greek using my actual call to get my attention let alone my handsign (????). Are you sure she's really greek? I just find it hard to believe that her Sorors haven't called her out on that if they've seen her do it. You did say she is a 'friend?' I don't know what to say of that because either way you've asked her to stop and she's still doing it maybe there is a deeper rooted problem there. I wouldn't beat her down for it (at least not in my letters, just kidding) that's not Finer Womanhood - LOL Take MightyQuinn's advice that would be the right thing to do.