No more open flames...

[adpideltaup]

Sisters-

We found out this past weekend that MJ Insurance, the liability insurance carrier that covers all NPC groups, has now outlawed open flames- so no more candle passes/candlelights, no more candles during preference parties etc.

This doesn't just affect ADPI so I think we need to try and think creatively about how our members (collegiate and alumnae) will be able to celebrate such events in the future.

Loyally,
adpideltaup

[sdsuchelle]

Good! There was a fire at the A Chi O house last fall because of candles.

Those little battery-powered "candle" (ie lightbulb) holders work wonders.

[ADPiShannan]

Im not sure why, but we quit using a real candle when I first became an alum. I thought it was because we heard no candles anymore. Actually I am almost 100% sure of that, so I guess we were ahead of the game or something.

Anyways, we use the battery operated candles for a alot of events and we did it once with a candle passing, the person who was pinned, etc.. unscrewed the bulb to turn it off.

Its a shame not to use the real candle for a passing because it is special, but I think using a fake one could be ok.

Im sure they will think up other creative ideas for events now too. We couldnt always use a passing for diamonds reveals so we had to get creative with other ideas too, sometimes our alpha classes were too big to do a passing for each girl.

[Zillini]

We were still using candles in our Pref ceremony. Folks are not going to be happy about this but oh well. I was thinking about looking into the little pen light flashlights and do it similarly to how we do it at Convention closing. I wonder if I can find some cheap ones at Oriental Trading Company or some such.

[polarpi]

I was telling a few people at VLS - we did "Rose Ceremonies" for pinnings, engagements, etc. I don't know the best way to incorporate violets instead, perhaps, but it is an option

[ASUADPi]

adpideltaup- Is this just for collegiate chapters or ADPi as a whole?

I'm kind of bummed if it is as a whole. I'm not seeing anyone but when I become engaged I wanted a candle passing. If it apply's to alums as well, well I think I might just go cry. (Brianna's attempt at a smiley face).

[adpi*violet]

Originally Posted by polarpi

I was telling a few people at VLS - we did "Rose Ceremonies" for pinnings, engagements, etc. I don't know the best way to incorporate violets instead, perhaps, but it is an option

When we did "rose cermonies," the sister who was pinned or engaged or whatever, just held the rose instead of passing it on. If a chapter wanted to do this- you could use a rose or just about anything to pass around the circle. One of the benefits of using a rose was that the sister got to keep the flower. In a candle pass, does the sister keep the candle or is the same candle reused for each new ceremony? I've never experienced one.
Anyway- That is something to think about when choosing your new traditional object to pass- do you want the sister to be able to keep it as a memory or do you want to use the same object to celebrate each special occasion in the chapter? Objects to give to sisters may be flowers (violets, or anything really), a specific type of ADPi jeweley (would get expensive). For chapter wide objects- Maybe you could just use a stuffed lion- but make it a special one, dressed in a wedding gown or something. Or have a ring pillow and the sister in question gives her engagement ring or pin from BF fraternity or a lavalier of BF fraternity letters to president before hand?
I don't know- I'm just brain storming. Just start a new tradition in your chapter and stick to it!

Off to go brainstorm ideas for candle alternatives in pref ceremonies now.
Edited to add: In a quick web search, I found 14 sites that offered various kinds of electric candles, plus a just a few sample sites with pen lights (think medical supply, white or in pretty colors on the outside-amythest pearl anyone?). There are quite a few options and many different prices. I'm sure each chapter will find something that will work for them for their pref ceremony.
Here are all the web sites I found:

http://www.littlebrightlights.com/si...48/page/620459
http://www.gazebos-and-garden-sheds....d-candles.html
http://www.christmas-decorations-gif...4/products.asp
http://www.save-on-crafts.com/chrisligandl.html
http://www.100candles.com/battery_ca...Group=&start=1
http://candleffects.com/products.htm
http://www.christmaslightsetc.com/ca...p?CategoryID=1
http://www.aboyd.com/prodinfo.asp?number=ABC%20L-1001
http://www.myvirtualzone.com/detail.aspx?ID=13982
http://www.christmasespast.com/blowout1.html
http://www.happycandles.com/electric.html
http://www.christmasdepot.com/list/46/123
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...lance&n=284507
http://www.inspiredlighting.com/

http://www.allegromedical.com/produc...dc/175420.html
http://www.prestigemed.com/Subcat8x40.htm

[adpiucf]

I've never witnessed a chapter that used candles unless it was outdoors. Does this new rule mean they can't light candles outdoors?