Should I even try?

[adpiucf]

After formal recruitment ends, send a message to the Office of Greek Life stating you'd like to be put on a list to be contacted by all of the sororities holding continuous recruitment events following recruitment. This way, you may have more than one option. Call the office a couple of weeks later if you haven't heard anything.

Send an email to the ABC recruitment chair after recruitment, along the lines of:

Hi NAME:
Congratulations on your wonderful new member class! I'm not sure that you will remember me-- I preffed ABC last year and while I joined another sorority, I withdrew during my new member period. I would love an opportunity to get together for coffee or lunch, to hear how ABC is doing this year, and to see if you might be recruiting additional women after formal recruitment. Thank you so much for your time and consideration. I may be reached at (contact info)

Thanks again!
Best,
Your name here

[tandyshell]

This happened to a friend of mine. She wanted to be in EG, but she was in DEF, instead. She stayed in EG, though. Good luck.