I figured that more people feel the same way, however it's so taboo to say that you don't like your father, mother or grandmother. People like to believe that respect is due to these people. My thoughts are that respect is earned not due. My mother has gone above and beyond what an average mother needs to do and for that she will always have my utmost respect and undying love.
As for this situation with your father, you made it this far in life and have become the person you are with out him, and you will continue to grow and prosper without him. If he thinks that you will some how suffer and fall apart because he not speak to you then thats his faulty thinking. Keep on trucking
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Originally posted by KAPPAtivating
I must tell you that I think a lot of people feel this way about somebody in their family. I cannot stand my father! We tried to rekindle our relationship (which he let go for 15 years while he was married) and I was stupid enough to move around the corner from him. Now because he cannot dictate who I talk to (he's very controlling and manipulative over people), he doesn't speak to me anymore. I know I would not cry if he died. Now he has some MONSTER chick as his girlfriend and she caters to his every need. I loathe the both of them.
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