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I agree with DeltAlum and James here. If there were clear signs that the child was cutting classes, stealing money from my purse etc., I don't have to breach their trust by reading the diary. I don't need to find the "dirty evidence" before I realize that there is clearly a problem. If the child is doing all that, I would immediately get some professional help. It's way beyond a diary or locker by that point.
Just on the diary itself, while I would be tempted to read it (cause I'm nosey), I also know that I wouldn't like what I'd find, so why set myself up for disappointment, sadness, anger, whatever? People should be confortable with be able to write down their thoughts and keeping it away from prying eyes. I would, however, draw the line at letting my kids keep their door locked (although closed is fine) and I'm big on keeping tv and computer (especially) in a central family area. Having dinner together nightly really helps too. None of these things can prevent your child from becoming a thief, addict or malcontent, but they will certainly help you better identify the warning signs so that you can strike early.
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