I have never understood why some people are so vehemently anti-greek. I was fortunate not to have to deal with that from my family and friends, in fact everyone was very supportive. You need to do what feels right for you. You are not going to change....the fraternity may help bring out some of your talents and qualities, and may help you to discover new interests, but you will still be you. If these guys are your true friends, they will still be there for you when they see that you are still there for them. If not, then what's the big loss? One of the best parts for me about going to college was weeding out my true friends from the people I was just kind of hanging out with because they were there. The most important people in my life stuck around (all went greek, but we all pledged different GLOs) and are still here, plus I got to have a fabulous greek experience. Good luck!
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