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Originally posted by amanda6035
I totally do not agree with this. Reason being, in my experience, and from talking to my friends - if it seems too good to be true, then it probably is. In almost ALL of my previous relationships, if I got that sick feeling in the pit of my stomach, I just KNEW something was about to happen. I didnt know when, I didnt know why and I didnt know how until it actually happened. But I would always try to ignore that feeling and not discuss it with him because I didnt want HIM to get paranoid, and lo and behold, something crappy always happened.
One of the reasons I knew my fiance was the right guy for me was after 3 months into the relationship, and still no sick gut feelings...
Trust your gut. You're crying for a reason. You dont know what, but there is a reason. It might not be bad - it might not compare to what I said above....but definitely trust your gut.
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Just for the record, this is the most pessimistic post I've ever read on this site - and that includes all of the crap on the Hazing forum, as well as Hoosier's posts. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but this level of pessimism may not serve others as well as it has served you.
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