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My boyfriends lives 15 minutes away and we only get to see each other on the weekends. We're busy during the week, but still communicate by phone and email. So your situation isn't unusual. People are busy-- grad school, 12 hour workdays, personal errands, life.
You're probably crying due to 1) other factors you're not realizing, or 2) you're just anxious because things are going so well and you're waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Talk it out with your girlfriends. New love can be overwhelming.
Most guys I know don't understand the female psyche, and so I wouldn't recommend talking to your bf about uncontrolled sobbing or trying to have a deep conversation about feelings unless you've been dating a very long time. At this point, the feelings are there, but that connection to just share anything isn't solidified. It will just confuse or freak him out, unless he is one of those rare guys who understands why girls cry for no immediate reason. It's perfectly fine to share that you're happy being with him, and if he does do something to upset you, you should communicate that to him (except in this case, it doesn't seem that he has done anything wrong).
Rely on your girlfriends, enjoy your new relationship, communicate and turn off any Lifetime TV movies!
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Last edited by adpiucf; 02-01-2006 at 01:52 PM.
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