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Originally posted by 33girl
IF a sorority - anywhere, any school - says something like what the poster is reporting they said, they are DESPERATE.
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I think you also have to understand that this is Spring Recruitment and it's extremely informal. For all they know, I could be using them for a free dinner! The RC asked if I was wanting to pledge now, or if I was just checking out the scene for Fall, and was happy to hear I was too excited to wait (so long as I found the place I was meant to be).
Since they could only gouge my wanting to join on how many times I decide to visit, maybe she said that because I needed to make her aware of if I thought Chocolate was the place I wanted to be. In other words, "We're not going to offer you a bid if you don't take the initiative to show this is where you want to be, and now is when you want to join." Perhaps talking to her and saying "I feel like this is where I want to be" is the only way of letting the girls know I'm serious so they can get serious about talking about me and discussing whether to give me a bid or not. Otherwise, I'm just a waste of their time.
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