What did I do wrong?

[sageofages]

Originally posted by apsb1000
I rushed a a big state school and after the first party, I only got invited back to three houses, when most girls got at least 8 and the max was 12. I am a legacy and I got that house but even if this sounds cocky I am suprised that I got fewer than other girls. I was outgoing and asked questions etc (everything my sister told me to do) and I genuinely wanted to come back for the second invite but I am upset that I only got 3, two of which I did not like on both parties i attended and one I am a legacy to (which really doesn't count now, does it?) I really just want to know what exactly they are judging and what I said wrong.

My sister seems to not have any answers and I can't seem to come up with anything that stood out in my mind that would have really made me seem that awful that 16 of the 19 houses really didn't like me.

I understand that every girl cannot be in a house, but I find it hard to make a decision when I only get to see 3. I don't feel like I can make a wise decision from this.

I guess I just feel cheated because I feel that all my options were taken away so soon in the game (and yes, I defiantly made the GPA requirement and I dressed appropirately)

Sometimes things just go astray...

IF the houses you were invited back to really aren't options in your mind...is COBing an option for you.

Relax and get to know the chapters as individuals and consider that route.