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Old 12-06-2005, 12:26 AM
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Why would AI have anything to do with it?

IF they like you, they like you, if they don't, they won't.

But I am not sure what exactly the problem is other than you feeling left out and unappreciated.

OBviously you can attend any meetings that fit your schedule. They happen weekly. I am sure you posses a chapter calendar so you can go to those events also.

If they shceduled some social time with you, well you said you didn't want that anyway . . . I can see why you might be a little miffed at cancellations . . . but in the grand sceme of things that doesn't seem that important given that you can see them formally weekly.

Also I am not sure feeling unappreciated is fair . . what have you done for them that they should feel grateful for?

Thats not a jab at you, but i have noticed that some advisors feel that their mere presence should generate some type of affectionate gratitude.

So what is there to be firm about?

Also, that invitation of hanging out with the sisters was very nice of them not indicative of rejection. It wouldn't be reliving the college experience for you, it would be giving you an experience you didn't have.

If anything you rejected them and their good hearted offer.
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