Gay men and lisps- potentially controversial thread

[honeychile]

I have known (not in the Biblical sense, obviously) more than my share of gay men. The less macho of them usually lisp, the more macho ones don't. I tend to think they're showing their "role" with the lisp (or the limp wrist, etc) - or a cultural thing.

On a tangent but, the other day, I was thinking about every guy in high school and college who I either knew was gay or suspected was. Every last one of them has either died of AIDS or has HIV. Absolutely heartbreaking.