Convinced,
I truly empathize with your plight, and I think we all know how hard it is to find a good man. I will share with you a pearl of advice my nana gave me..... "If there is no ring, keep the distance the same!" I know it may sound crazy, but her heart is gold. Before you uproot your life, you need to know that the relationship will continue to progress. There is nothing wrong with waiting a couple of months before you decide to join him or not. If you get the ring and things don't work out, at least you're relocation from relocating expenses will be on him

. In all seriousness, love is hard to come by and a good man is hard to find, but before you go rushing into something, be clear on why you are rushing at all and what/who exactly you are rushing to. Good Luck and you know we have your back whatever you decide!