I have to agree with james on a lot of points. Maybe Guys are different besides plumbing, the love of any organization is still there.
When I go back, while it is not often because of time and distance restraints, if not for Alums, the Chapter would not be building a new house and trying to rebuild. If not for My help in working with IHQ, We should have been closed.
I am not saying hang around the Chapter and attend all of the partys, but be a part for aiding them in functions when needed.
I am also not saying being shunted into the kitchen for only serving dutys and busying the trash.
You may be an Undergaduate now, but one day You may be come an Alum. Do You want to be the maid for them as an Alum? You were an Active and are still interested in Your Sorority or You would not want to be there.
Who do You go to if there is a Major problem? Advisor who may be a do nothing or an Alum that You feel close with?
There are to many Alums who dont give a damn once they Graduate, so why treat one who is interested like an Old Shoe to be thown away?
If I was treated like some of You are talking, I would just tell you to screw off and when You needed My Help I would say more than that!
Remember, I am a Member of LXA for Life, not just 4-5 years, how about You?