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			cold turkey is the way to go.  It took my ex moving back to TX (away from IL) and then declaring no email, no IM, no phone...nothing.  It was a 2.5 year relationship and anything that has been going on for a long time just can't handle the strain of "maybe we can be friends".  It's called a break up because something was broke...and it probably can't be fixed.
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