Boyfriends and Crushes

[AlphaFrog]

OP = 2005

Yeah...

[DeltAlum]

Just because you're on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu...

[Scandia]

What would you do if the person you had a crush on (assume both of you are single and the person can return your love) also has a lot of other people crushing on him or her? Should you even bother pursuing the person? Or are you setting yourself up for heartache?

[KSig RC]

Originally Posted by Scandia

What would you do if the person you had a crush on (assume both of you are single and the person can return your love) also has a lot of other people crushing on him or her? Should you even bother pursuing the person? Or are you setting yourself up for heartache?

Yes, clearly if something is desirable to others, you should give up on it

[James]

Thats just silly.

ITs like saying you should find the most busted up person with some annoying personality disorder to date, just so you can feel safe because no other sane, non-busted-up, non-angst-ridden human being would ever want them.

Someone shouldn't be with you just because they have no other choice. It doesn't say much about them and it certainly doesn't say much about those that pick their mates that way.

Originally Posted by Scandia

What would you do if the person you had a crush on (assume both of you are single and the person can return your love) also has a lot of other people crushing on him or her? Should you even bother pursuing the person? Or are you setting yourself up for heartache?

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by Scandia

What would you do if the person you had a crush on (assume both of you are single and the person can return your love) also has a lot of other people crushing on him or her? Should you even bother pursuing the person? Or are you setting yourself up for heartache?

So what if other people like them? If you want him/her, put yourself out there.

I have never understood the point to that kind of rational.......