Young Alumni....Still in the mix?

[rhochi2002]

Thanks for everyones postings. It's good to see that everyone has expiranced the same things as me. I graduated in Fall 2003 and I really miss just hanging out with my sisters and having preplanned events to go to. I am at graduate school at the same school that I went to as an underground. I am tight with a couple people and they invite me to stuff. Some how one of them talked me into going to a fraternity event her boyfriend's fraternity was having, so she didnot have to go alone. I know alot of their alums because I dated one of the brothers for 2 years but I still felt really old. Sometimes I go to bars with the actives I am friends with but I try not go to sorority events unless I am invited verbally by the alum chair or an officer or written. I remember that alumnae can be a problem so I try not to be that person. I would also never go to a social or date func. etc. since it is against the rules.
but some of this can be a pain because there are alot of guys in my graduate program that are still active in their fraternities, and they'll ask about why our sorority is different. But actually don' t understand going to those events just because I feel to old to be there.
we are trying to start an alumnae group in town but it is difficult.