meeting someone I never expected to see again.

[James]

If its his decision how can it be mutual at all?

Also, he has already made the first move ( a huge one), why not contact him to show that you are definitely interested beyond friendship? Thats just logical because its what you want and he isn't a mind reader.

Men can be just as emotionally insecure as women when they like someone.

Originally posted by anaballerina

Ultimately, I want it to be his decision whether we go out again. I know I like him, but I would like it to be mutual (friendship or otherwise). At this point, I guess I just need to think positive (if it was meant to be it will work). I also really need to write my history homework so I can't dwell any longer, but if you do have any thoughts I'd love to read them!