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The usual etiquette ties the amount you should spend to the amount being spent on you for your spot at the reception - ie if the 'cost per plate' is extremely high for one particular wedding, you'd be expected to give a nicer gift.
I think that your personal ability to spend would trump all of these concerns, but not everyone is as forgiving as me.
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