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Originally posted by PhoenixAzul
We have the "accept (Decline) with regret" option..but here's the catch, it counts as "accepting" the invite.
Example: Suzy PNM gets an invite to Tau Delta's final party. Unfortunately, she has a religious comitment at the time of our preference party that is extremely important. She wants to go to the party, but just can't make it...so she "accepts with regret". Now if Suzy also recieved invites from TEM and Theta Nu to final party, she would have to either "accept with regret" to one of them, or accept one of them and attend their party...one group must be cut by her. 1 w/regret+1 accept= 2 final sororities that you are almost assured to be SOMEWHERE on their bid list.
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Hmm... I heard this described differently:
If Suzy PNM gets 10 invitations to a round of parties where she can only accept 5, she can accept her top five, and put "decline with regrets" on as many invitations as she'd like. Then, the next round (she can accept three), if she receives no invitations from her top five, she can - IF they extend an invitation - to one of the other glos who DO extend an invitation. That's because ABC, who she "declined with regrets" really liked her, and decided to give her one more chance.
Maybe it varies from campus to campus?
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